hundura Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I Cant End My Relationship Okay So I'm 23 and I was dating this girl for a few years. The relationship wasn't working out; I felt like I couldn't connect with this person at an intellectual level, she is not the best at English and has a difficult time following complex stories and some simple jokes. I sometimes feel like her interests are really just reflections of what she knows I'm interested in. My brother and friends seem okay with her but I know they don't truly like her and its difficult to accept because she really is a sweet girl and I know she is crazy about me; But I just feel like if we stayed together I wouldn't be able to appreciate her like she should be appreciated and I would be extremely depressed because I would feel like I'm in a dead-end relationship. now to the complicated part... I broke up with her about 1 year ago. We still constantly see each other, we are good friends but we cant stop having sex. we have talked many times about how it wont work out as a relationship and the cons outweigh the pros, but the urges keep popping up! We go to school together and text each other, she is currently unemployed and I hope once she starts working it will put some distance between us. However she is about to start working with my brother. I just hope this doesn't complicate things further, (I'm trying to be mature about this situation as my company was hiring and his office was the only one accepting new employees) So any advice would be nice. I enjoy her as a friend but don't know what to tell her to get her to truly move on and get her to stop kissing me, holding my hand, having sex with me. (I know this is my fault as well) any advice is welcome!!! this is making me feel like a horrible person. (I'm considering counseling and possibly anti-depressants *possibly*)
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