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This woman walked into my business for the second time today. Like 2.50 said a long time ago in a previous post when you see somebody that fireworks go off in your head, wow. This woman is beautiful, but married. I would never think about anything but it gave me hope that I can get the wow factor again. Just beautiful and funny and the face like 2.50 said you can wake to up every morning and kiss. Just saying that it gave me hope. She was beautiful. I guess I said that already.

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I see (on the low side) two dozen women a day like that.

 

What's your point?

 

Mr. Lucky

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I dont..

I see women but none that give me that oh la la my hearts on fire for you feeling.

Aint there, and i dont think itll ever happen again..

Only once upon a time did that happen.

I see women, i look.. But i really want them to stay away from me..

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Mr. Lucky, perchance do you in Boulder, near the Colorado university?

 

I did some research there years ago, and I swear every third coed was a 9 or better. Even the 60 plus year old librarian was a hottie.

 

No doubt I met and dated lots of good looking women, however there have been just few that have had that extra O-WOW factor.

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That was my point. You only get the real wow factor only so often.

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Mr. Lucky, perchance do you in Boulder, near the Colorado university?

 

I did some research there years ago, and I swear every third coed was a 9 or better. Even the 60 plus year old librarian was a hottie.

 

No doubt I met and dated lots of good looking women, however there have been just few that have had that extra O-WOW factor.

I'm in Vegas :eek: ...

 

Mr. Lucky

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Its not happened to me yet but I am loving being single!

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It makes me sad - in the last 12 years i had / met somebodywith WOW factor only once and at the time i ws married and i did not persue it... what are the chances it will happen again? In the forseeable 12 years?? Thats sad:(

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Same happened to me dude, my wow girl got married last year. I could have had her if my ex left back then. Oh well, maybe there will be another one some day......

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Vegas, that explains it.

 

I have met a lot of WOW's in my life. But it takes someone special to make me want to give up on all the rest of the beautiful women, in order to kiss just one for the rest of my life.

 

I am retired, and I estimate maybe a dozen or less.

 

But I should also add, that I am fortunate, in that I have been able to date a lot of good looking women. So it takes some thing extra

 

The odd thing is I was working with one when I separated from my EX. I was a floor worker and she had a business degree and was a big muckity in the office, married to her college sweetheart for 5 years.

 

I didn't think she had even noticed me, until about 2 months after my break up, she unexpectedly showed up at the bar we workers used to frequent every other Saturday night. The real shocker was she wanted to have sex with me that night, and if I wasn't willing she would find some one who was

 

And yes we did have a relationship, and wanted more, but it was too early for me.

 

And then I had to wait another 15 years before it happened again.

 

But to be fair, after the break up of my marriage I was determined to never fall in love again. So while there were a lot of WOW's, I was dead set against any of them ever advancing into the O-WOW cloud

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You do realise you are talking about women like they are objects? Good grief.

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Ha ha trust me fellas the feeling is mutual :D

 

 

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You mean like sex objects?

 

As a younger man, my main interests in life were, car racing, working on cars, model building, riding fast motorcycles alone (just me and the road), back packing, fishing, playing baseball, football, basketball, and volleyball.

 

I never met a single gal who was worth shucks and doing any of those things.

 

My other main interest was sex, now in that field they excelled.

 

However with sex, they had to have a pretty face along with the Goldilocks look, not too fat, not too skinny, not too tall, not too short, or there would be no sex, as my body would not respond.

 

The hard truth is that when I met my present GF and the love of my life, my first thoughts were, "Now there is a face I could kiss. She's got legs! And the rest of her is great also!, I sure would like to screw her"

 

There were no thoughts wondering whether she might like Disney characters, puppy dogs, or what movies we both might like.

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SS

 

That is why finding that special O-Wow person is so special. As both have to feel it. -

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The "WOW!" factor ain't nothing if it isn't followed up by the REAL "WOW!" factor.

 

Unlike Mr. Lucky, I don't have the privilege of seeing dozens of beautiful women, but I do see a couple a week that catch my eye. As a married man, I know that catching my eye is okay but nothing else better try catching them. :D Of those, it is rare that one makes me look twice.

 

Anyhow, too often when I actually have a conversation with them, then a mental comparison is made to my wife and they usually lose. I say usually, because in the initial meeting, some do seem more interesting. My guess is that if I got to know them longer, very very few would even get a second comparison.

 

Honestly, I think I can get the wow factor more from beautiful personalities than I can from looks these days. Perhaps I am getting jaded in my middle age. :laugh:

 

My point is....the physical wow factor doesn't compare to the double wow factor of personality and looks.

 

Besides, she is married. Mentally, she made a comparison too (if you were lucky enough to cross her radar :laugh:), and my guess is that her husband has the double wow factor. ;)

 

Oh well, I have no doubt that if she knew of your eye-opening, knee-wobbling tongue-tying reaction, then she would be very flattered and pleased that she could still do that to men. And her husband probably would agree with you. :)

 

I do know how you feel though. Sometimes when we see such a beautiful woman, we are surprised (especially at my age) that anyone can give us that kind of reaction simply by sight.

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I like what 2.5 said and just physical WOW would be fine as i m not looking and more likely not ready for anything more serious or deeper. Just because i am not ready for another real thing doesnt mean i have to lock myself in a closet and be miserable, right?

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You mean like sex objects?

 

As a younger man, my main interests in life were, car racing, working on cars, model building, riding fast motorcycles alone (just me and the road), back packing, fishing, playing baseball, football, basketball, and volleyball.

 

I never met a single gal who was worth shucks and doing any of those things.

 

My other main interest was sex, now in that field they excelled.

 

However with sex, they had to have a pretty face along with the Goldilocks look, not too fat, not too skinny, not too tall, not too short, or there would be no sex, as my body would not respond.

 

The hard truth is that when I met my present GF and the love of my life, my first thoughts were, "Now there is a face I could kiss. She's got legs! And the rest of her is great also!, I sure would like to screw her"

 

There were no thoughts wondering whether she might like Disney characters, puppy dogs, or what movies we both might like.

 

 

Sex objects?? no.... More like objects, things... So are you saying that as long as she's fit/hot that will do? as long term relationship?

 

So does that mean most men actually just go for looks?? I know that its important, but the hottest woman/man might end up a real bore... Don't you need the full package? Rather than just a pretty face??

 

I have seen a few Wows but seriously, doesn't mean to say the rest of him would keep me happy mentally/emotionally.

 

Women must look for something else in a man then lol...I could meet a really hot guy, feel like jumping on him...but if after a short while he as a person didn't do it for me I'd be off....I certainly wouldn't sleep with him cause he had the wow factor

 

 

... I suppose I though most men's minds worked a little different?? Went to a cool bar the other night there were 'okish' men with with pretty, big busted plastic girls...it honestly looked pretty fake n sad.

 

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Our problem is we have 2 heads thinking for us and you know which one usually does most of the thinking.....

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A woman's brain cell got transported into a man's head. Upon walking around all she could find were brain cells that contributed to the function of the body, keeping the heart beating, lungs breathing etc. But being a woman she wanted to find other thinking brain cells she could talk to so she started calling out "Where is everybody? Is there anybody here?" Finally off in the distance she hears "We're down here"

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JamesM

 

One of the things that I noticed about myself after fell in love with my lady is that I hardly notice any good looking women. It was like I somehow turned off my radar.

 

On two occasions, one while stopping at the mall on the way home from work, I noticed a hottie some distance away in a crowd. In both instances, when out paths crossed, I was surprised to find that "That's Mine" as it was my GF who was also out shopping. Good Feeling

 

Perhaps the truth is I was 50 when we got together and my testosterone levels are way down. Don't get me wrong I still notice them, but there are not as many as when I was in my prime. In the case of the two incidents in the above paragraph, in my youth, I would have chased them down. Now I let them come to me.

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All I can say is thank god I have the wow factor :D:D:D;)

 

I know men think in their pants, seriously didn't think it was that bad tho....

 

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No doubt that my best time for meeting lots of new women was in my college days. At that time the world was full of beautiful women, and one of my life ambitions was to kiss as many as I could. Looking back I suppose that there were many that had the WOW factor, but the truth is at that time, I looked upon marriage as a trap, as I would have to limit myself to just one woman.

 

I have always been particular about a woman's looks as a dating partner. Of my male friends, most were not, they just wanted to get laid, and for them while they preferred the hotties, in most cases they went for the sure thing.

 

And then there were the nice guys, serious students, who were in schoold to get an education so that in the near future they could support and raise a family.

 

I will let you guess who got the most dates and who were starving for dates

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