glace10 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 So it was my friend's birthday last week her name is Angela and she celebrated it in a club. There were basically 2 groups that came, one group were people from her highschool and the other was her college friends, and I was in her college group. My friend introduced two groups to each other. She had a friend lets call him 'S', and when I first saw him I thought he was cute, although he was really shy. After half an hour or so in the dance floor dancing with friends and the other group from my Angela's high school, 'S' came behind me and started dancing with me. When I went to the washroom he would stop dancing and wait for me to come back and go behind me again to dance. We basically danced until I left the club. I was little drunk so I didnt have the best state of mind. There was at one point where I just left without saying anything to him, and when I looked back I saw that he was really disappointed and I felt super bad. The next morning all my friend's were like "omg katarina, you danced the whole time with Angela's friend 's' " So today, I went to have lunch with a bunch of friends including Angela. Angela called her boyfriend (who is bestfriend's with 's'), and when he picked up the phone Angela told me to talk to him for awhile coz she was doing something at the moment. So I was talking to her boyfriend and he said "my friend 's' wouldnt shut up about you' , and our convo stopped there unfortunately because Angela was done with whatever she was doing. I was wondering if this guy thought I was at least cute, why didnt he ask for my number? He is a shy guy, how do i get him to make a move to try and ask my friend Angela for my number? I dont wanna ask Angela for his number or ask her to hook us up because I dont wanna seem like im chasing after him. Im interested, but its just I want him to make the first move. :/
d0nnivain Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 The guy doesn't know he has a green light to make the first move. I'd ask Angela to have her BF to bring S to the next group event you all do. Another option might be to friend him on FB.
ForeverHopeful1 Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Why does he need to make the move? Go after him if you like him.
ConstantVoyager Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I'm a big fan of sucking it up and asking guys out. It's worked very well for me.
Keenly Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Instead of focusing on trying to make some one approach you, you should seize life with your own hands and do it yourself instead of expecting some one else to do the hard part for you. Some times all it takes is one really obvious green light.
giving-up Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 I would say approach him the next time you guys are all hanging out agin. Give him your number so the ball is in his court to make the next move. Also try and find him on Facebook and start having convos with him. Guys dont always have to make the first move.
hppr Posted November 2, 2013 Posted November 2, 2013 He is a shy guy, how do i get him to make a move to try and ask my friend Angela for my number? You need to contact him, or tell your friend to organize something where just you, your friend, the boyfriend and this other guy go out together. Something that puts you all in the same place. As for 'making him' do something that won't happen but if you lay things out and make him feel comfortable when he's with you then he should figure it out.
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