bulls42 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I was in a relationship for 6 years with a girl but I cheated countless times (12) and we finally broke up in Feb. She found someone right away and I’ve dated about 6 girls but still can't find anything. She called me in summer and said I miss you and love you, asked me out to pizza and movie, while she was with her new boyfriend, but I didn't answer her call, she got mad at me never talked to me again Now I met some girl named Dani but I texted to much and probably scared her away by asking her to be my gf after two dates but she was looking for a bf too so i figure ask but now she won't talk to me I feel alone but since I've been with so many women I just want a relationship What should I do to meet the right "one"? I feel lonely even though I've been with so many women (24) Are there any suggestions on how to meet new people besides they everyday normal routines of life?
nescafe1982 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Part of the problem with being commitment-phobic is that it typically leads to a crushing loneliness like this. When you're always looking over your shoulder for something better (you know, cheating on GFs and that kind of thing) it leads to an inability to find fulfillment with one woman. Which leads to a pervasive lack of fulfillment... which leads you to ever more desperately seek woman after woman after woman. Does this resemble your search? If so, it's a downward spiral. Stop dating and do you for a little while. Work on making yourself happy, work on fulfilling yourself. Once you've had a little bit of time to recuperate from this negative pattern, you'll bounce back. Stop looking for fulfillment in women... and especially stop looking for fulfillment in their vaginas. You have to be self-sufficient to attract the right one. Hope that helps and good luck!
TylerDurdenn Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 OP you sound like a dick, hope your ex has found someone a lot better (it wouldn't be hard).
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