fritziematt Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 So what does it mean if the girl you are dating (who says she really likes you and wants to keep dating) tells you to call her but then when you do she doesn't answer and doesn't call back?
allina Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Well she may have been busy, how long has it been since you called her? It is also possible that she does not like you as much as she said and was trying to be nice. If a girl really likes you she will put in the effort to talk to you and see you, if it turns out that she is blowing you off, move on to someone who will call you and want to talk to you. Good luck.
Author fritziematt Posted December 14, 2004 Author Posted December 14, 2004 Well...it is the end of the semester here at school. Maybe she was busy. Its happened three or four times now in the last week. Its just confusing when she tells me to call and then doesn't respond... we did talk a few days ago on IM though...and she told me to call again... but nothing... she wants to get together on Thursday before we leave for Christmas break...well see what happens then. I really don't understand the being nice thing...if you don't like someone tell them instead of making them think its still going on for weeks or months. That's what happened with my last girlfriend.
Pocky Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Maybe you should stop calling. See if she calls for a change.
alphamale Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 Originally posted by fritziematt I really don't understand the being nice thing...if you don't like someone tell them instead of making them think its still going on for weeks or months. That's what happened with my last girlfriend. Dear FRITZ: Females put a high prioirty on not hurting people's feelings except the don't understand that it is worse to beat around the bush and give men false hopes. Some of this is also attention seeking behaviour. I wish I had a nickel for every woman i've met who seemed interested, flirting with me, then giving me her # and asking me to call. Then I call and they don't call back. Weird man. But in all actuality if a woman really really digs you then she will make time for you and call you back no matter HOW BUSY she is. alpha
NatoPMT Posted December 14, 2004 Posted December 14, 2004 But in all actuality if a woman really really digs you then she will make time for you and call you back no matter HOW BUSY she is. thats usually the bottom line
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