Wings Of Love Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Feeling incredibly rough the last few days, meaning I've been stuck in bed feeling sorry for myself and now I'm at the point where I want to contact him again. My sister's wedding was the weekend just gone and while I had a fantastic time without him, the romance of the day made me miss him and that feeling has yet to pass. Not to mention I keep stumbling across posts/pictures of his on Facebook, despite having blocked him nearly a month ago, which I don't understand. Usually a blocked user's profile picture would be the default Facebook photo, but for some reason that's no longer the case. Driving me up the wall. :/ Sorry everyone, just feel the need to type something. Better than contacting him right? 1
melell Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Keep your chin up and keep going. I think it helps to remind yourself that the feeling is only temporary, and by staying nc you are helping the feeling go away faster. Hard, but worth it. There are always ups and downs, you will feel better again, promise. x 2
faithfully Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 its ok babe, post here, get it all out. it does help and nice to get encouragement from the guys here. it is really hard but you have to be strong and not check his facebook. If anything can you don't deactivate your facebook for abit. that's what I've done so I don't get tempted to start stalking his facebook. My break up is around the same time as your, 6weeks and its soo hard so I can relate and understand exactly what it is your going through. sooo glad there is a forum like this out there for us who are hurting and suffering as our friends get tired of hearing about our ex constantly. keep posting if it will help you heal but not facebook stalking. its really not gonna help you. trust me 1
Author Wings Of Love Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 its ok babe, post here, get it all out. it does help and nice to get encouragement from the guys here. it is really hard but you have to be strong and not check his facebook. If anything can you don't deactivate your facebook for abit. that's what I've done so I don't get tempted to start stalking his facebook. My break up is around the same time as your, 6weeks and its soo hard so I can relate and understand exactly what it is your going through. sooo glad there is a forum like this out there for us who are hurting and suffering as our friends get tired of hearing about our ex constantly. keep posting if it will help you heal but not facebook stalking. its really not gonna help you. trust me Oh I'm not stalking his Facebook, I really did block him at the beginning of October. But annoyingly enough I can still see some of his activity, which is strange because that never happened with other people on my block list. I'm frightened I'll see him with some other girl. Not quite ready for that yet. I've considered deactivating Facebook but I like interacting with family and friends on there and don't want to give up something I enjoy just because of him. 1
faithfully Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Oh I'm not stalking his Facebook, I really did block him at the beginning of October. But annoyingly enough I can still see some of his activity, which is strange because that never happened with other people on my block list. I'm frightened I'll see him with some other girl. Not quite ready for that yet. I've considered deactivating Facebook but I like interacting with family and friends on there and don't want to give up something I enjoy just because of him. Awww yeahh can understand the facebook, its not fair why should you lose out catching up with friends and family just coz of him. You will be fine if you need a friendly chat, am here to listen, remember your not alone. But things will get better with time time is a great healer Chin up babe you will get there xx
Author Wings Of Love Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 Awww yeahh can understand the facebook, its not fair why should you lose out catching up with friends and family just coz of him. You will be fine if you need a friendly chat, am here to listen, remember your not alone. But things will get better with time time is a great healer Chin up babe you will get there xx That's lovely, thank you. I appreciate it. I'm here if you need to talk as well. This is my second breakup, I like to think I'm handling things much better this time around. Took me 3 years to move on from my first boyfriend, hopefully it won't take as long this time. x
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