ponchsox Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I was dumped 5 weeks ago, and a few days before, my ex GF asked me what I wanted for my birthday and what I wanted to do. Today I'm having my worst birthday ever because I miss her.
lindsay1990 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I was dumped 5 weeks ago, and a few days before, my ex GF asked me what I wanted for my birthday and what I wanted to do. Today I'm having my worst birthday ever because I miss her. Happy Birthday, first of all. It's hard. But it will help you move on once you realize she didn't congratulate you or does and then you won't hear from her again so... just hang in there, I guess? We're here for you. 1
Author ponchsox Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 Happy Birthday, first of all. It's hard. But it will help you move on once you realize she didn't congratulate you or does and then you won't hear from her again so... just hang in there, I guess? We're here for you. She did wish me a happy birthday but I miss her
lindsay1990 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 She did wish me a happy birthday but I miss her Oh.... then... just hang in there. Are you doing anything with your friends? You should go at least trick or treating or knocking some kid's candy basket out of their hands while shuting "SCREW LOVE!" at random 2
JustaRegularGuyZ Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I got dumped a week before my birthday. I'm glad she was able to use the money to get smashed with her girlfriends and get her face tongued on second night after our break up.
headinthecloud Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Happy Birthday, Ponchsox. Do something you've always wanted to do for yourself. I'm sorry she reached out to you, that will set you back a bit. Be strong.
lakerman34 Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Yeah man. My ex (last year) dumped me 4 days before my birthday.....in the car, on the way to meet my parents. It sucks. You just got to NC and get rid of EVERYTHING that reminds you of her. Find ways to hate her. I would find a picture of her, and on the back, write things that you find disgusting and awful about her. Look at the picture, and read those things. Over and over again. Soon you will associate those things with her face. Also, go to the gym. A lot. Gymming gets rid of A LOT of stress. Stay away from alcohol. It's a depressant. I never felt the depressing side of alcohol until after I was dumped. It's unpleasant. Talk to your friends about her. Make jokes about her. Let your friends trash her. My best friends told me after my ex how, the moment they met her, they thought she was awful but knew I liked her, so kept their mouths shut. Slowly, you'll chop her from her pedestal and knock her down to the pits. If I see my ex now, without question, I know I'd act politely, but if she were to make a move, I'd back the hell up. I see her as so gross now.
Author ponchsox Posted November 1, 2013 Author Posted November 1, 2013 Thanks for the birthday wishes! Yesterday was very tough but I feel much better today. I had a lot of birthday greetings from friends on Facebook which made me feel good. It's nice to know who your true friends are! 1
Mariposa10 Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Thanks for the birthday wishes! Yesterday was very tough but I feel much better today. I had a lot of birthday greetings from friends on Facebook which made me feel good. It's nice to know who your true friends are! Why not try to re-connect with them
Nikki Sahagin Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 My first ex dumped me a week before my third year uni exams.... Unfortunately, real life happens with no thought about special occasions and important days. You know what? If you can't be happy today, don't force it. Just feel how you have to. You can always celebrate your birthday later.
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