cottom Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 My ex had GIGS, we were perfect then she went off to uni, i tried to make it work but she was just watching all these single people having fun while she was stuck with a bf that had already finished. She broke it off, i threw everything at her to get back but eventually gave up and went no contact. In the end a month later she had started a relationship with another guy that had consistently been throwing himself at her while we were together. This was 10 months ago (January), 3 months later (April) i got my friend to collect my things back off her, i got a phone call off her that night saying she just wanted to chat, i hung up immediately when i knew who it was. Ignored all the recalls off her and then she text me saying she still thinks about me all the time and her heart always hurts without me. I ignored this and met another girl in May, this girl the relationship is a lot slower, shes the same age as my ex but this is not some whirlwind romance like my ex but more of a slow paced relationship. I got a bit drunk with my gf and added my ex on facebook, i talked for a little bit and caught up on our current lives until i blocked her straight up off facebook because i couldnt deal with her. She emailed me that night asking why i had blocked her and that she still loves me, her new bf is horrible and treats her like **** and has mental issues and just doesnt give her what she wants in the relationship and if i want to meet up she would meet and cheat on him (not her exact words) because i was her perfect guy and she wants someone like me again. I ignored her because i have a gf and she left me so she can deal with it. There you have it, treat your gf like a princess, dont buy her love just be yourself and be nice to her and give her the emotional support in a relationship. If she left with GIGs she will come back when she realises you were the one, and then you can laugh as you have moved on. 1
AHaze Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Make that the last of her then broski... Don't fall into the trap of getting tangled up with her again in one way or another, She's the one who waltzed off to uni to go and get freaky with random guys from student bars every weekend... Don't let her worm her way back in now she's had her fun, she's damaged goods, say ta ra. 1
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