elizabeth21 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I honestly don't have lovey feelings for him. He can date who ever it just kinda irks me because he said at our break up he wasn't gonna date in hs again sine he wasn't "ready" and that it's this girl out of everyone who has liked him for 2 years.. We dated over a year and broke up in April. He didn't try with us and with me wanting him to give more effort he wanted to end it. I should've let go of this boy but I liked him so much and tried to make it work. But I just got hurt in the end. Him and his new gf are both 17. We stopped talking a few months back when she'd flirt with him. It sucks he treats her better. She's never dated anyone either so he may be great in her eyes. She's more on the introverted side like him. I'm more outgoing and that caused some problems while we dated cause I just didn't want to sit on the couch 24/7 and see him more than twice a week. I probably should've voiced my opinions more while we dated but he should've too. She said he took her out for dinner last night and wrote a letter to make it "official". So I had to see on facebook my friends "liking" that they're together. I had to like plan/initiate our first date! He drives out to see her n what not. He never did that stuff for me. It sucks he changed for her. Idk if it's a honeymoon phase and the real side will show. I want to be treated like a real gf and not be on the sidelines of my bf's life. I need a MAN and not a boy. I lost all feelings for him but it still kinda stinks ya know? I wish he didn't think I was "clingy" or "high maintenance" like he told his family. I just wanted to feel like I was loved. Was that too much to ask for tho? But I guess he found someone who's okay with that and doesn't want to be involved in his life as much. I wish he saw all the sides of me. I'm not some priss like he thinks. The break up kinda bruised my ego but after meeting guys this summer and growing as a person I started to like all the sides of me. He said he didn't think he'd ever be the romantic guy I needed but it looks like he is with her.. I'm 18 and I'm excited for the next bf but it still sucks since this was my first bf. We had the best times but now he's all cold and a stranger to me. :/ I guess he's not for me but it just stinks having someone give up on you when you didn't on them. It kinda stinks seeing them all happy like. He once went home after we got back from a hs trip without saying bye to me and he was leaving the next day for like 2 weeks on vacation. He shoved me in a wall once but that was cause I was walking away from him while he was explaining something. Little stuff like this pissed me off but I didn't want to to let go. I should've but then he said he wanted to stay with me. 2 weeks later we broke up...Advice?
Eivuwan Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 You're graduating soon. He will soon be out of sight and out of mind.
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