loveRight Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 hey ya'll! Thoughts about someones bf who watches porn frequently..but isnt intimate with gf often?
Philosoraptor Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 You need to date a man; not a boy who would rather feel his hand than feel the inside of you. 3
soccerrprp Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 you need to date a man; not a boy who would rather feel his hand than feel the inside of you. holy schmoly yes! the bf may be serious addicted to porn and the best way fro him to get aroused is by watching porn. if so, this guy has been and is watching a lot of porn and has had limited physical relationships to draw from. 1
Author loveRight Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 You need to date a man; not a boy who would rather feel his hand than feel the inside of you. wow..seriously thank you. That makes a lot of sense! its really insulting having to deal with that
Author loveRight Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 holy schmoly yes! the bf may be serious addicted to porn and the best way fro him to get aroused is by watching porn. if so, this guy has been and is watching a lot of porn and has had limited physical relationships to draw from. yeah, you may be right on point! i mean i think its freakin embarrassing on his part.
soccerrprp Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 yeah, you may be right on point! i mean i think its freakin embarrassing on his part. Yeah, it should be, but this "addiction" is something he can overcome by staying away from porn and spending a lot more time with his gf. He'll have to retrain his brain to be attracted to the real thing....
Author loveRight Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 Yeah, it should be, but this "addiction" is something he can overcome by staying away from porn and spending a lot more time with his gf. He'll have to retrain his brain to be attracted to the real thing.... YES i completely agree! Do you have any advice on how to talk about it with him..that its actually a problem & it affects his gf?
soccerrprp Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 YES i completely agree! Do you have any advice on how to talk about it with him..that its actually a problem & it affects his gf? Show him the research, articles online. Convince him that the real-thing is SO MUCH BETTER than fantasy and porn. Good luck! 1
Assasda Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I dont think people watch porn because theyre immature. But its a different fantasy. Check out the movie Don Jon. Its not bad. Hahaha, you may bore him
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I tend to think more guys are addicted to masturbating... porn is just the best visual stimulant available. He might be an introvert who lives in his own head. Probably creating fantasy all throughout the day. Any fantasy, not just of a sexual nature.
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Show him the research, articles online. Convince him that the real-thing is SO MUCH BETTER than fantasy and porn. Good luck! I don't know about this. If a guy is a chronic masturbator (imagine every day since age 13 or so), he may be a complete pro at pleasing himself
Grumpybutfun Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 hey ya'll! Thoughts about someones bf who watches porn frequently..but isnt intimate with gf often? Is this an epidemic? Seems like we see these posts way too much. Are there any women who do this? SMH, Grumps
Keenly Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Its also possible that he doesn't feel any kind of pull or desire to be intimate with you. This can result from resentment of change or maybe a kind of feeling of one sided ness on the relationship. Just really take a look from a distance at your relationship as a whole and ask yourself is it good? I loved my first girlfriend but eventually that love just fizzled out. I didn't want to be with her or be physical with her anymore. Its not even anything she did either, it just happened.
soccerrprp Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 There are other opinions here that are legit, too. If he's a chronic masturbator, well, that's another issue and similar to the porn issue. He's more stimulated by his hand than the real thing. Again, if he wants to change that, he needs to stop or seriously limit the masturbation. Tell him to live out his masturbation fantasies with his gf instead of his hand alone. Let his gf wack him off...
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