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How long should i wait for a girl to call?


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Actually met this cute girl two days ago during a job interview. We talked a bit and everything seemed to be going well. I asked if she would like to exchange numbers but sadly she doesn't have a cell phone (Or so she says idk lol) Anyway she asked for my number and said she would call me. (I asked for her number because it was before a job interview so i very well could never run into her again. So was that weird to do?)

 

So yeah whats the average wait time to getting a call? Never really gave a number to someone i just met so not really sure what the norm is.

 

Also any tips as to what i should do in the future with other girls? I'm not in college at the moment so pretty sure i have to be a bit spontaneous if i want to talk to a few girls that i meet around the town.

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I wouldn't waste time waiting around at all. If she calls, she calls. If not, whatever. No need to sit around impatiently waiting for a call from someone you don't even know.

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Next time I would say you are better off asking for her e-mail then... At least that way YOU can initiate contact.

 

In regards to this situation, as the other poster said, don't "wait" around.. At least you made an effort to talk to her/etc so you won't regret not trying. Not much you can do at this point. The girl might have had all intentions to call you in that moment but a day or two later the "Feeling" she had at that point has worn off and she doesn't feel the desire to put in the effort anymore.

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Highly doubt she'll call. A girl in this modern age not having a cell phone? Unless she's over 50, I highly doubt it. She didn't want to give you her number, so took urs instead as a kind way of rejecting your advance. I wouldn't wait around for this one.

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Yeah i feel like she isn't going to call but oh well lol. I feel proud doing it anyway since its something i wouldn't even think of doing in the past.

 

Anyway do you have any helpful tips that i could use in the future. I'm still new to this type of thing.

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I only said to guys that I would call them when I had no intention to do so and didn't want them to pester me with them calling.

 

She might be the same.

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I only said to guys that I would call them when I had no intention to do so and didn't want them to pester me with them calling.

 

She might be the same.

 

Either you meet some really unsavory guys, OR your word doesnt count for anything. Lets hope its the former.

 

Anyway, Look for other girls around town. Just approach them

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No cell phone?

 

She should have had the decency to at least invent some entertaining story pertaining to the tragic loss of her cell phone to distract you from how lame her rejection method was.

 

Chalk that one up.

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No phone at all?

Really?

You bought that?

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So many people fixated on that =/ Kinda asking for a bit more advice on future situations. Yet it is the same thing said over and over. Hardly helpful. Still thank you to those that manage to give an insightful opinion rather than repeat the former post.

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There is no average wait time for a girl to call. I've exchanged cell#'s with girls, only to ahve them call back two weeks later. Having said that, it's 2013, and the best thing to do would have been to ask for either her email address or facebook. If she says she does not have any, she is lying. At least that way, you can get the truth on the situation (if she is interested), more quickly.

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Either you meet some really unsavory guys, OR your word doesnt count for anything. Lets hope its the former.

 

Anyway, Look for other girls around town. Just approach them

 

They weren't really unsavory most of the time, I just wasn't interested in them. Though yes, some did turn out to be quite unsavory with their name calling and stuff...

 

What was I to do instead, make a scene on the spot and insult them for even daring to approach me?

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