Bettyclare Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I met a guy last weekend that my friends and I know and he told my friend and I that he has liked me for a year. So at the end of the night I gave him my number and he texted me a few times I met him on Sunday for lunch and it went really well, we talked a lot and he kissed me Then we texted for a couple of days and met up again on Tuesday evening but I am naturally shy and just got shy and a little overwhelmed. He was sweet and texted me when he got home saying that he missed me already. I texted him yesterday morning and he immediately replied and we talked for a while but he hasn't been in touch since I think I am just aware I may have damaged it on Tuesday night and want to know so I can just let him go gracefully if that is the case
Valen Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Need more detail what happen on Tuesday night. By the looks of it, he wasn't bother by it. And it's only been a day since you two last contacted. That's quite normal.
salparadise Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Heck no! Don't overthink this stuff. Stay engaged, let him know you're interested. Initiate contact and show some enthusiasm. There is no rule that you have to be passive. It takes two to tango. Let him know you're in.
Author Bettyclare Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 On Tuesday night? there were quite a few times when I was really quiet and he would just look at me...but he wasn't funny about it and at the end he did kiss me quite a bit. I think I have just been programmed over the years to not initiate as a girl and I was the one who texted him first yesterday!
Valen Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Being shy and quiet is not a big deal. I find it quite cute personally. So yea, you're over-thinking things, over time you should be more comfortable with him.
Valen Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Sometimes I don't txt a girl I like for 2 days cuz I have things to do. If it's like a week and no response, then I would say yea forget him.
mammasita Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Stop overthinking and live your life. The absolute WORST thing you can do is obsess over how long it takes for a guy to respond to you, you will drive yourself CRAZY.
truth_seeker Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 On Tuesday night? there were quite a few times when I was really quiet and he would just look at me...but he wasn't funny about it and at the end he did kiss me quite a bit. I think I have just been programmed over the years to not initiate as a girl and I was the one who texted him first yesterday! Was he trying to talk to you and you didn't respond? Did you act disinterested in him?
Author Bettyclare Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 No I don't think I acted disinterested...just shy and a little tongue tied
truth_seeker Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between shy and disinterested.
Author Bettyclare Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 Thank you all he texted me this evening and I just spoke to him so I was daft to worry really!
Assasda Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Thank you all he texted me this evening and I just spoke to him so I was daft to worry really! You are crazy. This is how women overthink and get into such weird predicaments
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