scoopy Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 hey everyone I just can't decide whats the right thing to do so please help me last week i talked with a guy my friend fixed me up with. that was the first call and we had never met before. we talked a little bit and he asked if we could meet in a coming week. i agreed and we suggested couple of days and decided to confirm that later. he said he will confirm it and will call. BUT from that day till now which is about a week HE HASN'T CALLED YET!!! I'm really confused ! he was ok on the phone and wanted to meed me but what happened?!! and i don't know should i call him? and see when are we going to meet? or should i forget it and see what happens next??
Shashasha Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Maybe just for this once, send him a text message asking whether you guys are meeting.
Mascara Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Nope, don't call. He said he would. If you call, he might agree to a day out of politeness, but his silence only tells you that he's changed his mind. If he wanted to see you, why wouldn't he have called? Exactly. 3
melbjen Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Honestly. You never know whats going on. Maybe something has distracted him or hes been busy n doesnt have time yet. You just never know. If it was me and days or weeks past by n nothin then id send a quick txt n say something like hey you still keen to catch up sometime. If u get nothin then youll know for sure n you can move on Id rather know than not know. But you never know. He might reply Give it a go there's no harm. A girl that knows what she wants n goes after it without coming on too strong is attractive to a guy. Says a lot of my guy mates including my boyfriend.
Mascara Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 No, and neither did he he break his phone or forget her number. He said he would call, he hasn't. Leave it. Don't end up with a pity date because you believe the myth that guys like girls who chase. They may think they'd like it - but only because they have this fantasy about a supermodel demanding sex. If you'd had vague plans about who would call, I'd say go for it. But he said he would call. 1
soccerrprp Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Personally, I wouldn't contact him. A lot could have happened, sure, but I seriously doubt he's forgotten about you. He's probably busy with someone else as you were or are only one option for him. Next... 1
stillafool Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 I agree you shouldn't call. He did say he would call you and he hasn't. If you call him you may end up with a pity date because he is a friend of your friend and may not want to disappoint her. Whatever is going on with him if he's interested he would or will reach you. 1
Lansing Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Only reason I would contact him if I were you is if you think you gave off a "not interested" vibe.. He might be wondering if he should even bother with you based on something you did/said. Otherwise, if things seemed positive/good then you should probably leave it. I guess part of it is that people might think "oh, it has been a week/2 weeks/ it would be awkward if i contacted her now" especially if you haven't really spoken to him
d0nnivain Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I hate game playing & not calling falls into that catagory to me. I'd call with a plan. Do you want to meet on Wednesday? If he says yes, great. If he answers with anything other than an yes or a no but how about Tuesday, write him off.
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