theothersully Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 This thread is a *train wreck*! You are reading way, way too far into nothing. You would destroy what you have based on a Facebook post you stalked that he didn't mention to you when you haven't gone out in 10 days?? This.... this is why men don't understand women. This is NOTHING to a guy. Just some trip. He'll be back soon and will probably be eagerly looking forward to seeing you.
phineas Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 IDK you haven't seen him in person in 10 days. You aren't sleeping together. You aren't officially dating or even have plans to meet up in the very near future... You could of been friendzoned or he just isn't into you that much, wants to go over seas to romp around without feeling guilty? If I were in your situation I probably wouldn't even know the chick went on a trip cause I don't really use facebook much past checking to see if they are married or frauding on their OLD pics. LOL! However, if I did find out & she was texting me from overseas like nothing changed i'd mess with her & text her "good morning" when it was HER morning & not mine. If she didn't figure out I knew and mentioned it i'd assume she is really dumb & forget about her.
phineas Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 Facebook absolutely ruins relationships. For this exact reason. Your about to leave a dude because you read something on Facebook. I don't agree facebook is the problem. There are people out there who would be in the same situation & not drop someone. They would just continue with the friend request then "like" it so the guy knows she knows & then let him mention it. Or not and find a guy who is more in tune with her.
Keenly Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I don't agree facebook is the problem. There are people out there who would be in the same situation & not drop someone. They would just continue with the friend request then "like" it so the guy knows she knows & then let him mention it. Or not and find a guy who is more in tune with her. I wasn't really referring to the situation, but rather the escalation process. Things that used to be non issues or no big deal ( see : liking opposite sex pictures ) and they blow up into huge drama fest fight nights. All thanks to Facebook being a part of the relario ship. I strongly encourage people that are dating to not friend each other.
Author mishy Posted November 1, 2013 Author Posted November 1, 2013 well i rang his phone and it went straight to voice mail. says he is away and back on November 15. So yeah, nice way to find out. His business phone is the same as his personal one so i guess he left that message there for customers. Charming. He doesnt care at all about me. Go away overseas for 2 weeks and not mention it. I am thinking he has gone with someone, some girl maybe, and thats why he isnt telling me
kassy Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I just re-read this. You aren't in a relationship, don't do anything sexual, and haven't seen him for 10 days. Maybe you should be asking yourself why you ever thought there was anything romantic there? Sounds like friends 2
Author mishy Posted November 1, 2013 Author Posted November 1, 2013 (edited) I just re-read this. You aren't in a relationship, don't do anything sexual, and haven't seen him for 10 days. Maybe you should be asking yourself why you ever thought there was anything romantic there? Sounds like friends either way, despite the fact that we are in daily contact he didnt think to tell me he would be out of the country for two weeks, so regardless of what we are, he obviously doesnt see me as very important. So i am not contacting him again, he can get stuffed. He knows very well i would be worried about him if he stopped replying to my calls etc (because he is overseas) , so he obviously doesnt care how i feel. Its just inconsiderate. He knows i would be really worried if he didnt reply, worried that something has happened to him. So yeah... he didnt consider me at all. :[ Edited November 1, 2013 by mishy
Author mishy Posted November 1, 2013 Author Posted November 1, 2013 (edited) I am kind of glad he went without telling me as now i know how he really feels towards me I am only surprised he didnt tell me because he will know that i (would have been) sending texts asking where he is, and whats happened to him. So to avoid getting a whole heap of "where are you " messages when he arrives home, i would have thought he would tell me he was going. So thats kind of strange Edited November 1, 2013 by mishy
Emilia Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 I am kind of glad he went without telling me as now i know how he really feels towards me I am only surprised he didnt tell me because he will know that i (would have been) sending texts asking where he is, and whats happened to him. So to avoid getting a whole heap of "where are you " messages when he arrives home, i would have thought he would tell me he was going. So thats kind of strange I don't think you are in the right place emotionally to date someone. You are treating him as a friend yet you are expecting him to invest in you and treat this as if the two of you were building something together. You can't expect someone to put more of their heart into something than you, why would they? The two of you aren't really dating, why should he tell you anything?
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