gixx3r Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 So things haven't been the best lately been fighting and now I get the whole I need space line.....I'm all for giving her all the space she needs but she chose to remain at my house and put herself in the situation of having to see me every day which confuses me....why would she say she wants or needs space but refuse to go stay at her own house???? Her idea of space is not texting me throughout the day like normal and somewhat ignoring me when we are home together.....I'm trying to honor her request the best I can with her refusing to go to her own house and I'm only contacting her if she text me first or speaks to me first while we are home together....this all confuses me and bc of previous relationships it screams there is someone else or that there is more going on then meets the eye....is that me just being paranoid or what.....it's been a lil over a week now and Ive been doing good at honoring her request for space considering the circumstances or so she says but I tried to get her to tell me where we stand and wether or not she wants to be with me or what and she avoided the question all around......sex has stopped also but that does not matter to me as much as the other stuff......I do not want to just be strung along during this "space" nor do I want to be given false hope.....any suggestions????
ponchsox Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Space = breakup. Go NC and move on from her. 1
Fufu Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 So things haven't been the best lately been fighting and now I get the whole I need space line.....I'm all for giving her all the space she needs but she chose to remain at my house and put herself in the situation of having to see me every day which confuses me....why would she say she wants or needs space but refuse to go stay at her own house???? Her idea of space is not texting me throughout the day like normal and somewhat ignoring me when we are home together.....I'm trying to honor her request the best I can with her refusing to go to her own house and I'm only contacting her if she text me first or speaks to me first while we are home together....this all confuses me and bc of previous relationships it screams there is someone else or that there is more going on then meets the eye....is that me just being paranoid or what.....it's been a lil over a week now and Ive been doing good at honoring her request for space considering the circumstances or so she says but I tried to get her to tell me where we stand and wether or not she wants to be with me or what and she avoided the question all around......sex has stopped also but that does not matter to me as much as the other stuff......I do not want to just be strung along during this "space" nor do I want to be given false hope.....any suggestions???? This is utterly unfair to you by her actions. She stays in your house still, doesn't want to talk to you (no forms of contact unless she initiates) and she wants space. Doesn't sit well for me. And for goodness sake! It's your own house! Anyway, I'm glad you guys stopped the sex for the meantime. My suggestion is to give it another week of space for her. Then gradually give the ultimatum for example "If you believe we can work out this, then let's talk about it. If not, tell me what exactly you want because this is driving me insane and I have no idea where exactly our relationship is heading."
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