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Hi guys,

 

Never really done online dating before. I actually downloaded an app called 'Tinder' for a bit of a laugh.

 

Anyway, got chatting to some girl and we hit it off straight away. Started texting pretty full every hour for like a week! She works right near me, and after a week and half of texting, she was working the same hours as me today.

 

Cant even describe my nerves as I walked up to meet her. Was extremely worried she'd be disappointed that I didn't live up to my pics or text personality.

 

anyway, it seemed to go well and we chatted for a while. I left and texted her back. Texting continued where it had left off, but 3 texts later its gone a bit stale and she has just sent a reasonable blunt text, and for the first time I dont know how to reply.

 

Anyway, I want to ask her if she was disappointed when we met, but im not sure whether this is wise?

 

Help please!

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What did the texts say

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Nothing bad. Just a lot shorter than usual with no questions.

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"Anyway, I want to ask her if she was disappointed when we met, but im not sure whether this is wise?"

 

Very unwise. Sounds needy. She was the last one to reply, so leave it until tomorrow and then just ask how her day is going. Take further cues from how she responds to that.

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