FrostBlaze Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 (edited) Not to sure on how to go about this, first time on such a forum, apreciate the feedback. (my english might be rusty). So i met this girl a while ago(both of us are 19) , she was crazy in love with me and tried to get my attention, i refused at first, but then we eventually hit it off. She couldn't stop TEXTing and calling me to see what i was doing, got jealous quickly, etc. After a while of talking she had confessed to loving me and also having to move to another country in 2 months and stay there for like 1 year. After she hit me with this bomb NEWS is when stuff started going downhill. I know she is moody and HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM but jesus. She would get affectionate every 2-3 dayz of the week, then have 3 dayz when she was rather cold, and barely even talking to me. She kept on doing this for quite some time. I took notice when she did this mood swing, so when she was in her "GLOOMY DAYS" not talking to me i would not give her to much attention and just let her be, that itself pissed her off harder, because i wasn't talking to her, duh. My fault i was like "u want the space, here u go". All in all, we argued, cuddle, argued etc. Until recently she just really stopped getting in contact with me, gave me the "let's just be friends" speech. Reluctantly, i was okay with it, and she didn't break off, she was the one still getting in contact with me after we broke up. At this point things kinda went 180, i was/am loving her so much but she wasn't at all, despite her always contacting me. One week after the brakeup we had a little chat over MSN. She was rather envious or gealous about me talking to some other girls. (friends, wasn't anything else) Then she also mentioned about dreaming of me, and wanting to talk about "something that would only make her cry"<---so she said. I tried to get it out of her, she wouldn't tell. I told her she can count on me, i am here for her. And the discussion kinda ended when she said she doesn't really care for me, that got me rather upset. TODAY: I ignored her completely on MSN, i did my own stuff, until later at night i decided to check in on HER and see how she is doing. (1st day of her period). HER PHONE was off. She got UPSET because i didn't talk with her all day, and said she doesn't care FOR ME, never did, harsh words. I confronted her "why are you jealous then, why you keep me in contact list? etc" stuff like that. I told her i would be there for her ! ...she just left me hanging. Keeping it shorter then it actually is, long story allready. So she contradicts herself, she has mood swings, gives me signals she cares but says she doesn't, pushes me AWAY but won't REMOVE me from her life. Low self esteem...happy one day, sad the other. Says she never loved me and pushes me away lately. What i wanna know is, does she care or what the hell? Could it be that she has to leave for another country that's affecting all this?...Or just using me? If people are experienced with such sittuations. Ty for your time. Excuse my english. PS: She is also having a hard time TRUSTING PEOPLE, because of her ex, that kinda broke her heart real bad, long time ago, so she said...she figures she is better off alone. PSS: I think stuff just turned 180, i love her to much and i kinda show it, so she might be manipulating me/keeping me at her whim idk xD. Or just got uninterested. Edited October 30, 2013 by FrostBlaze
Author FrostBlaze Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 Srsly nothing? I'd appreciate any kind of input, even if it's dissrispectfull towards me.
Gallaxia Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 It seems like there's a whoooole lot of drama going in. It might be best to cut contact and move on. Otherwise, she will always bait you for attention & get a rise out of you with no intentions of anything further.
Assasda Posted November 1, 2013 Posted November 1, 2013 ^ why is cut ties, and no contact so popular? Anyway... You started putting her on a pedestal, so you were no longer a challenge for her. She has you wrapped around her finger, so therefore you're on the back burner 1
Author FrostBlaze Posted November 1, 2013 Author Posted November 1, 2013 Okay thanks, i was pretty sure that was the case, but i couldn't help myself. Gave in to easy after i fell for her, mm thanks for the posts guess i better back off for good.
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