Matthewb12456 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Hey there, what are your thoughts on creating balance when looking to meet new women on a college campus. I would really like to meet new women and potentially start a relationship. Half of me says go to the spots where women are and start chatting, the other part says just do your own thing, focus on you are your goals, and if a woman walks your way, great. Is there a balance I can find here? Part of me is just overthinking, tired of being single and needs to get laid haha but I am actively working to be better with women and more confident in myself. - Thanks for your thoughts!
Mr.Mango Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Go the second route, for your own sake. You won't be happy with yourself once it's time to pay the student loans and figure you wasted valuable time on girls instead of getting all you could out of college. Part of me is just overthinking, tired of being single and needs to get laid haha but I am actively working to be better with women and more confident in myself. Lucky for you, college shouldn't be a hard place to "just get laid". But in all seriousness, focus on school. You'll have tons of time to work on being more confident when you're working, believe me.
AntiSocal Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Focus on yourself not girls. You should write out an agenda for each day and stick to it no matter what. Make sure you always get what you need to get done FIRST. But you should still talk to the girls you see on a day to day. Talk to girls in your class. You see a cute girl on the bus or going the same direction as you in the hall way chat her up a bit. But don't make your life about finding a girlfriend. Make it about self actualization. And make sure you play the field a little. Don't wife the first girl who smiles at you. 1
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