Amelie1980 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Hi Does anyone have any positive stories about people you dated short term who vanished. Do they ever come back? Particularly if their life was in a mess and needed to sort it out! He was ok for a few dates and then his life imploded and he got distant and ended it Do they ever come back.
forgetmenot75 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 This is a very general question, maybe you can tell us more? If he disappeared that is a sign he's not interested, he doesn't see you in his future, he has other options/women...could be his life was a mess but if he was crazy about you, he'll want you by his side. He might come back, but why would you want someone who flaked?
Mascara Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 The OP has a few threads on this, you can probably get most of the backstory there.
forgetmenot75 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 The OP has a few threads on this, you can probably get most of the backstory there. I just read some...then, Amelie, you should try to forget about this guy. He clearly said he's in no position for a ltr, and he's clearly not interested in pursuing anything with you. You need to figure out why you got so attached to this type of unavailable guys.
Author Amelie1980 Posted October 30, 2013 Author Posted October 30, 2013 (edited) I guess. His change was so quick though.and he was so down about his job. He swears it wasn't me. So I.wonder. Edited October 30, 2013 by Amelie1980
Author Amelie1980 Posted October 30, 2013 Author Posted October 30, 2013 I just read some...then, Amelie, you should try to forget about this guy. He clearly said he's in no position for a ltr, and he's clearly not interested in pursuing anything with you. You need to figure out why you got so attached to this type of unavailable guys. I guess I see the best in.people. he was so lovely when we were together. It wasn't as if we had a bad relationship that went wrong. Nothing happened between us. Do they ever.come back in.dating?
blondiee Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 I actually think that's happening to me right now. We met online and were practically inseparable for 2 awesome months. Then he just stopped talking to me. Don't know what happened really but it's only been a week so I'll let you know later. I'm not too hurt really considering it was short-term (for me at least). His life was a mess so I'd understand if he went MIA to sort that out without me. Bummer:/
Author Amelie1980 Posted October 30, 2013 Author Posted October 30, 2013 I actually think that's happening to me right now. We met online and were practically inseparable for 2 awesome months. Then he just stopped talking to me. Don't know what happened really but it's only been a week so I'll let you know later. I'm not too hurt really considering it was short-term (for me at least). His life was a mess so I'd understand if he went MIA to sort that out without me. Bummer:/ We were not inseparable as we had really busy jobs in top professions. We just couldn't be joined at the hip. I was just starting to get really attached to him so I am really sad I don't know if I should ask how he is or not.
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