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She strung me along for seven years. I'm done with relationships. All the lies and fake promises. It's all just to save their face. I was a seven year ego stroker. If she can do this then I don't want to meet anyone else. What about me? Isn't love a two way thing, she clearly doesn't care about me. All this time I was there for her to feed her loneliness, as soon as she didn't' get what she wanted she's out. Doesn't want to listen, doesn't want to talk, doesn't want to know me. Never again. Because she can get what she needs from someone else, my life goes on because it doesn't matter to her.

 

She's on such a dumpers high right now I just want to kill her ego. She's the one in control, she's the one who's alive. Well she's walking right into a gun because if she ever comes back I'm going to fire it right in her face.

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Yes they do actually. When they tell you they wanted to be things ever since they were 18, when they tell you they was only with you because they were afraid of being alone. She strung me along without knowing it.

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Yes they do actually. When they tell you they wanted to be things ever since they were 18, when they tell you they was only with you because they were afraid of being alone. She strung me along without knowing it.

 

Do you really think she's been running a long con from the beginning? Come on dude, snap out of it. Her feelings changed somewhere down the line, but she wasn't stringing you along the whole time. At least you have evolved to the anger phase from the "I need to constantly contact to get her back phase", but lets not go overboard.

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She's on such a dumpers high right now I just want to kill her ego. She's the one in control, she's the one who's alive. Well she's walking right into a gun because if she ever comes back I'm going to fire it right in her face.

 

You are playing right into her cards by even thinking this. You shouldn't even be concerned with "killing" her ego. How exactly does a dumpee kill the ego of a dumper anyway? Just seems like a faulty mentality to have.

 

It's a rough cycle in life I find...dumpers with high "egos" eventually will or have been dumped before. It's a nonsensical thing to even worry about in the end. I've been dumped, and I couldn't give two damns if it gave her an ego boost. You really want to "kill" something? Kill the pre-conceived notion that you even need to worry about an ex's feelings by finding someone more compatible than you thought you were before.

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