bigchallenge Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] Hello guys, I need an advice. I met a very interesting girl few months ago. She just brokeup an open relationship with someone else, who couldn't leave another woman forher. She said that she had feelings for him but it wasn't love. We starteddating and talking about things we never told other people before almost fromthe start. I was interested in seeing her and, because I had to take a longholiday, invited her on a trip to a beautiful island. She said that she neveragreed to go on a trip with someone that fast. We had a lot of fun, continuedtalking about things and enjoying each other's company. A month passed by, andafter a trip she sent me a few messages about how excited she to see me. But Imissed something, probably showed her too much interest; after two months shestarted getting angry at petty things and asking me if it's ok if she startsseeing other people. One day she got really angry, showed me disrespect, andsaid that I will never understand her artistic nature. I didn't fight back,just calmly said, "I will finish my dinner and go home". Shesuggested to break up and I said "It's fine". I decided to contact her later, tell her why I liked her and explain my view onrelationships with mutual respect and no anger. She suggested to meet and talk.During the meeting she told me that she wants to take time, needs passion andfire in a relationship and not sure if I am a passionate person. She also saidthat the guy she was dating before keeps bugging her, but she knows that shecan't be with him. I am a guy who has a bunch of hobbies, interests and progressivelydevelops them, which I told her. I suggested to be friends, which she haddifficulty to accept, but at the end said, "OK". She also wasn't sureif I can share her passion for music and theatre. This happened 3 month afterwe started dating. She invited me to a theatre next day, but I said that I wasmeeting friends. After that day I disappeared and haven't contacted her for 4weeks; she stays quiet as well. I date other people, but find this girl reallyinteresting and at certain stage I even felt she was the one. Do you think Istill have a chance if I try to contact her later and start from ground zero? [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT]
Philosoraptor Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 She moved on too quick and you were a rebound... sorry. You need to continue no contact and move on to someone who is emotionally available.
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