Venting.

[Dazed'n'Confused]

My best friend and love of my life broke up with me a few days ago and I'm having a very tough time dealing with it and need to talk to someone I don't know.

 

Our interests were almost entirely mutual, we shared a lot in common and were close friends prior to dating, which is why I'm having trouble dealing with this break up since I associate most activities I would usually use to unwind with her, and am unable to find any sort of comfort in these recreations.

 

She explained that she no longer loved me as a lover, and could no love me the way i deserved but said I was still her best friend, and after talking face to face, I am inclined to believe her.

 

We have mutually agreed to NC (which I am struggling with, but am using the coping sub forum extensively to write in rather than contacting her) for the next two weeks, but will catch up after then.

 

I have spoken with a counsellor and arranged subsequent visits to deal with my anxiety surrounding this relationship and its demise and have found some comfort in their words.

 

This is one of the roughest things I've faced, but am consoling myself that if this is the worst thing I've endured, life has been very comfortable for me and I shouldn't complain.

 

Cheers,

DnC

[Lizrd3000]

if this BU was the most dificult thing in your life as it was for me, you'll be such a more powerfull person after you deal with this, you'll be so happy you went through this. might sound fairy tale-like, but I'm serious.

 

as for activities, look for new ones to occupy your time, you might find something you're really interested in, and it'll help you get your mind off of her.

 

I hope other people can give you better advice than I can, just know that you're not alone in this, and know this is just another obstacle that life throws at you to become a stronger person in the end.

[Fufu]

My best friend and love of my life broke up with me a few days ago and I'm having a very tough time dealing with it and need to talk to someone I don't know.

 

Our interests were almost entirely mutual, we shared a lot in common and were close friends prior to dating, which is why I'm having trouble dealing with this break up since I associate most activities I would usually use to unwind with her, and am unable to find any sort of comfort in these recreations.

 

She explained that she no longer loved me as a lover, and could no love me the way i deserved but said I was still her best friend, and after talking face to face, I am inclined to believe her.

 

We have mutually agreed to NC (which I am struggling with, but am using the coping sub forum extensively to write in rather than contacting her) for the next two weeks, but will catch up after then.

 

I have spoken with a counsellor and arranged subsequent visits to deal with my anxiety surrounding this relationship and its demise and have found some comfort in their words.

 

This is one of the roughest things I've faced, but am consoling myself that if this is the worst thing I've endured, life has been very comfortable for me and I shouldn't complain.

 

Cheers,

DnC

 

 

he explained that she no longer loved me as a lover, and could no love me the way i deserved but said I was still her best friend, and after talking face to face, I am inclined to believe her.

 

This is her clear answer to you.

 

I can understand you are feeling the worst now. My only suggestion to you now is to keep yourself occupied and busy during this period of time.