geegee81 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Hey everybody. Ive been here nonstop for 3 weeks...But i see myself slowly slipping away from here. Life is going back to normal. I just hope that i learned from my mistakes from this last failed relationship. I dont want to make the same mistakes again. I saw the ex at a party last night. We are in the same social organization, so i will be forced to see him occasionally. I mingled and socialize with my friends and we were invited to sit with a few people at the table. It was dark in the bar and i didnt see notice him. As i set down, i realized that the Stupid Ex was at the table. I chuckled and said "OMG i cannot sit here and got up and walked away lol" I played it cool and stayed far far away from him the entire night. I disregarded him and continued on with the Halloween party. I looked awesome in my costume so i did have fun. But i just wish i didnt have to see him....It would make things easier. But i can honestly say that i didnt break down, i remained calm, and un-bothered, I didn't speak, he didn't speak....and that's it. Its just like we are strangers again. After years of knowing him, it feels like we are complete strangers. And i guess that it was a reflection of the relationship. We didnt know each other at all.
Philosoraptor Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Well it sounds like you did what was best for yourself, limiting exposure as much as possible. Just continue to do things to make yourself happy and move on.
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