purplemania Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 My friend set me up with one of the guys in her class. He texted me, we talked for a few days and then he asked me out on a date. The conversation itself went well (mind you, we still have not met), but now I'm really worried that he's just not going to be attracted to me seeing as he has NO clue what I look like (this is my first blind date, too). I think I'm fairly pretty, but I'm not your standard definition of "hot", and this is really paralyzing me right now. I guess physical attractiveness is still a big deal to me because I'm 19. I do believe that people are visually judgmental, and that it only takes a few seconds to create a lasting impression. I'm getting first date jitters ALREADY and it's not even the day of! How can I get over this fear and relax for my date?
TylerDurdenn Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 If he judges you by your looks then you know not to bother with him. Take it easy, just chill and go with the flow. 1
Assasda Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 I think your insecurities are killing you already. Hopefully youre not that insecure when youre out with him. Then you'll be giving him a reason to not like you
Author purplemania Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 I think your insecurities are killing you already. Hopefully youre not that insecure when youre out with him. Then you'll be giving him a reason to not like you I keep my insecurities to myself. :/ I have a pretty obsessive personality. I feel the need to worry and plan ahead for a lot of events, but once they actually happen, I have no choice but to just go with the flow.
KatZee Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 You are thinking WAYYY too much into it. You've never even met. Who's saying that you're going to find HIM attractive??? 1
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