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So I met a guy on a plane- we sat next to each other for about 9 hours, talked about his kids and divorce, our jobs, and lives- who is a businessman and works in the US for two weeks and them goes to Europe for another 2. We have been texting on and off the last two weeks since he had been in Europe. 2 days ago we made plans to meet up in the middle and he said he wants to enjoy the time we spend together and see if the person he met on plane was not an illusion... Well I texted him yesterday saying that I took Saturday off to meet. He saw the message but hasn't texted me anything back:/ so I'm wondering if the plans are off now. P.s. He flew back to the US today so I don't know if he is busy and stuff or just plain ignoring me... What do you think guys?

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So I met a guy on a plane- we sat next to each other for about 9 hours, talked about his kids and divorce, our jobs, and lives- who is a businessman and works in the US for two weeks and them goes to Europe for another 2. We have been texting on and off the last two weeks since he had been in Europe. 2 days ago we made plans to meet up in the middle and he said he wants to enjoy the time we spend together and see if the person he met on plane was not an illusion... Well I texted him yesterday saying that I took Saturday off to meet. He saw the message but hasn't texted me anything back:/ so I'm wondering if the plans are off now. P.s. He flew back to the US today so I don't know if he is busy and stuff or just plain ignoring me... What do you think guys?

 

How do you know he saw the message?

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The app we use shows as it's read...

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If it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be.

 

You've done your bit, don't dwell on it.

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The app we use shows as it's read...

 

Ah I see.

 

Well the two possible things is either yes he is busy or is blowing you off. I know traveling business people can be really busy.

 

Your best bet is to just wait it out. If he really wants to meet, he will contact you. If no contact, it isn't going to happen.

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You are right. I thought there was a connection and he seemed really into meeting only 2 days ago... :/

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He could be married, looking for an affair. If you have his business card, google him.

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Probably married/in a relationship...when you travel it can feel like you're in a different world/planet as well...things can happen quite easily like this so I wouldn't take it too seriously, this is not uncommon.

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Are you familiar with the term " Spare tire " cars have one, married people a one too, you might be a possible "spare tire"

 

Wait and ask...

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