Emma1234 Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 So many positives and negatives to this situation right now. First is that I am feeling nothing for my ex, he could go into a relationship right this second and it would hardly hurt. But the reason for this is that I've met someone. Except he has a girlfriend. He has made me realise what i want in a partner and it certainly isn't my ex. Nothing has happened, we've just spoken a huge amount, laughed a lot. We've technically known each other mutually for about a year but it is only now that we've spent time together. I have realised these feelings are developing and told him that we have to cut the contact, he was respectful of that. I refuse to be used, get hurt or hurt another person (his girlfriend). It just isn't worth it. Just wanted to share with people. I am struggling a little bit, it's taking a lot of will power not to talk to him but I know it isn't my place. This is very typical! I finally move on properly and meet someone who i feel a very deep connection with and this happens. One thing that i've learnt from this break up though is that if things are meant to be then they will be. Any advice on how to forget about this guy would be helpful. Thank you!
Stealth3 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Honestly, if you were still with your ex, you would have probably developed gigs and dumped him. Funny how people always see the perfect partners for them without even being with them at all. This is why people fall so easy in and out of love and never bother to work anything out.
Assasda Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 I'm laughing at the "I refuse to be used" line hahaha
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