mattboltz Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 So me and this girl who are both from the same neighborhood (she's 21, Im 20) dated for close to 8 months. Over those 8 months, we spent alot of time apart from each other due to going to different schools and I had an internship in the summer. We dated throughout the summer, and then broke it off right when we got to school. We didn't plan it that way, but with the increased levels of stress, and our frustration of not being able to see each other, it kind of broke down. It was hard. We did not talk for two and a half weeks after the break up, and then I called her, and I told her I missed her, she said she did too. Then we talked a couple more times and Went NC for the next month with the exception of her telling me she say my grandpa. Now I realize I really want her back. This is the girl of my dreams. I snapchatted her yesterday as a feeler. She replied to me 2 and a half hours after she opened it. She even put her face in the snap, and it was a puppy dog I miss you face haha, Im not making it up. I feel like if she didn't care about me, she would either not reply, or reply right away as she has nothing against me. But to wait 2 1/2 hours seems like she cared enough to strategically respond and not seem desperate. I guess I wonder what all of you have experienced or can infer from my information. Thanks!
Assasda Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 You guys saw each other for 8 months. She's not going to just hate you. She may still miss you, but that doesnt mean that she wants to get with you again. I think you can ask to see her sometime, and put the ball in her court, and its up to her if she wants to see you
devilish innocent Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 The best way to know if she's interested is simply to ask. I wouldn't assume anything from her response. She may have genuinely been busy with something else and not been able to get back to you for a while. I think you're reading too much into things with that. That doesn't mean she might not be interested in getting back together. You'll never know unless you try. Good luck!
TylerDurdenn Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 You've initiated contact twice, she hasn't. That says it all.
Author mattboltz Posted October 30, 2013 Author Posted October 30, 2013 I know that I am probably looking too far into the whole thing, but she did snapchat me today on her own.
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