jenn78 Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 I'm going on my first date since my ex and I broke up almost 5 months ago. I know I'm not completely over my ex but I feel like I need to start seeing other men in order to move on fully. I know part of me will always (or at least for a while) love in since he was my first love and he is a very important person to me. However, my ex broke up with me in order "find himself and grow on his own". I feel guilty in a sense that I'm going on a date with a new guy because I'm scared it will hurt my ex because i know he still cares about me too. But the guy I'm going on a date with I'm actually excited about because since my ex and even before I dated my ex... I rarely got excited about dates with guys because i just knew I wasn't interested. My question is what did you all feel when you went on your first date after a break-up?
Reels Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Wow no replies.. Probably none had a good experience.
mammasita Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 My first handful of dates after my breakup were flops......not saying yours will be, just don't be discouraged no matter what happens. I had a couple dates where I was excited. It felt good to have those feelings again, to know I could be excited about someone like that after my ex. It gave me hope .....even though the guys were douches lol
Fufu Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 My first date after the dreadful break up, I honestly did not have any expectations. It was just a see how it goes feeling. It went ok, but unfortunately I wasn't interested with the guy at all.
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