zoemac Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 HEYYYY guys!! im forever on this site reading all your comments and stories and they have helped me so much over so much time. so thanks . Today i really need your guys help and opinions, and i would really love complete honesty even if it will hurt. i will try and narrow it down as best i can as i dont want to bore you all. Anyway... I met a guy about 7 months ago. I met him on a tuesday and by that saturday after hanging out that week, we both were like WE REALLY LIKE EACH OTHER. and it happened so quick. The thing was he was moving to uni in London in September and this was april time. I am from Ireland. Anyway we both said it couldnt get too serious as he was moving away but we ended up hanging out 4 or 5 or even more times a week. Feelings obviously developed. The relationship its self was quite emotional at times, especially when alcohol was involved. He cried after a month to me saying he hadn't felt this way about girls since his ex gf, and i said i was the same after my ex bf. He got cheated on so he really didn't trust girls and to be honest he hated girls, but he told me it was different with me, i guess i was the exception. We became exclusive as we both didn't want anyone else. i met his whole family and he met mine. Once over the summer he did freak out and went quite quiet for a couple of weeks, you can imagine i was very confused. We would talk constantly all day everyday and see each other alot so for that to come down to maybe a few messages a day wasnt a nice feeling. So one day i ended it and i said look its been good but i cant do this anymore as its upsetting me too much and that was it. THE NEXT DAY he comes running back saying it was stupid and we shouldnt stop seeing each other. So we decided to give it another shot and we became even more close in that last month before he left. So before he moved to London it was obviously very sad, and alot of tears etc. we decided to keep in touch etc. i even said before he left, look do you think its best to just stop contact. he said thats not what he wanted. continued talking when he was over there, obviously it wasnt as much as it use to but i guess thats normal. the contact i guess did slow down. Was a couple of times i asked was everything ok, and he started ignoring me. Then out of nowhere he runs back after a week and the talk was everyday again for another 2 weeks. THEN we started to argue alot over texts. for a few days. it wasnt nice. then about a week and a half ago, we had an argument, i was drunk so did say some things i didnt mean. he told me to leave him alone. like this was out of nowhere he just turned on me, the day before he sent a message saying " i miss you". then the next day he told me to leave him alone. i was obviously angry and frustrated. anyway that night he blocked me on whatsapp, blocked me on facebook, and blocked me from making texts and calls. and just yesturday he removed me on his twitter, even though he doesnt use it. I did notice he made alot of new friends and there was one particular girl on his facebook as far as i can remember, but a few days before that he said he hadnt done anything with anyone since he left and couldnt wait to see me at christmas. My sister lives in london and he knew i had booked flights in november to go and see her and he said he was excited to see me as i was planning to go and visit him, he generally sounded excited and he hasnt shutup about seeing me at christmas since he left. alot of my friends think he has blocked me to move on, but he didnt even send me a text message. i really need advice on what to do. i know its for the best and i should move on. i know that. but the questions i need answered are.. does he hate me? is that why im blocked? or is he trying to move on? is there someone else? why did he continue talking and then cut me out like a drop of a hat? I feel so hurt and its frustrating not being able to talk to him and to ask why. I forgot to mention that last week after being blocked he sent me a snapchat saying "hey zoe". i dont know why he would send that. im now blocked on it. anyway i would really appreciate some advice and some help as i cant eat or sleep and i have never felt so low and **** in my life. thanks xxx
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