countryrider13 Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 My boyfriend and I are so in love. We've talked about spending the rest of our lives together and how we will get married one day. With that being said, wowantuld you still propose or
Author countryrider13 Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 Sorry typing on phone isn't working well. Would you still want a proposal or propose yourself knowing you both openly have already talked about, want to get married?
Mr. Lucky Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Sorry typing on phone isn't working well. Would you still want a proposal or propose yourself knowing you both openly have already talked about, want to get married? Why do you think he hasn't proposed yet? Mr. Lucky
GorillaTheater Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 How old are the two of you and how long have you been together?
pteromom Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Yes, I would still want a proposal even if we had talked about getting married. It's a special moment in your story. But "expect" is strong. It would depend on what your boyfriend thinks. If you've talked about marriage, surely you know his feelings on proposals and whether proposing is important to him or just silly and outdated to him. If you haven't had that discussion, then have it!
Author countryrider13 Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 Expect is the wrong word, replace that with want. I'm not asking if I should propose. I'm just curious if both of you have openly talked about wanting to get married to Eachother down the road, and that's what you both want....then is do you think there would still be a proposal at some point....or does that basically make us engaged? Im in no hurry, we both know we love Eachother, he's the love of my life. I hope to still have that proposal to make it official, but wanted others thoughts
pteromom Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Expect is the wrong word, replace that with want. I'm not asking if I should propose. I'm just curious if both of you have openly talked about wanting to get married to Eachother down the road, and that's what you both want....then is do you think there would still be a proposal at some point....or does that basically make us engaged? Im in no hurry, we both know we love Eachother, he's the love of my life. I hope to still have that proposal to make it official, but wanted others thoughts No I wouldn't consider you engaged unless there is a proposal of some sort.
Clockwork Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I know I am not the only one on here that thinks this. Let the guy propose. Always. This is the one thing a man gets out of the whole wedding/wedding planning scenario. The rest he is in the background. You have to let him do this. I asked my wife's father for permission before I even asked her. Old fashioned, nothing wrong with that. He was happy, and excited. Then I asked her. I'll never forget her priceless reaction when she read the note I wrote. That's something I don't think you can ever take away from a man. You know, they always say women dream of their wedding day, but I can assure you, us guys still dream about asking that one special girl for her hand in marriage. It is a moment frozen in time.
unicorn farts Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 You can talk all day long about how you both want to go to Paris someday but nothing's gonna happen until you buy those plane tickets
Silly_Girl Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Don't need a proposal. 2 adults, 100% sure about wanting to get married. Joint decisions on houses, finances, marriage, children. No need to have one of the two take the lead. We bought the ring together, as part of our wedding plans. A proper proposal would have been a bit weird.
bentleychic Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 I expect a proposal if he wants to marry me. It doesn't have to be big and fancy, it doesn't have to be at a special place, heck, it doesn't even have to come with a ring. BUT I do expect a proper proposal.
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