youcanever Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 She was one of the nicest and cutest girls i have met. We are both 24 and she was a virgin. I was too attracted to her when i first met her bu right now i am not. Conversations were dull with her and i started to love my interest in her sexually. I didnt want to be her first because i thought it would be right thing if she loses her virginity to a guy who finds her so attractive. Not like me. Also other girls seem more charming to me and i didnt want to cheat on her. She told me she wanted to lose her virginity to me and not breakup but i thought opposite. I dont want to mess with her head. Eve though i care for her a lot and i feel bad because of breakup, i feel i did the right thing for me and her. What do you think? Did i do smthng wrong?
Mz_sassy_77 Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Sounds like you did the right thing here. Wouldn't of been right. She would of been hurt a lot more if you hadn't of ended it. What do you mean by conversations were dull with her? Just you didn't have the same interests etc?
Shashasha Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 You did the right thing! She might hurt now but she deserves someone who is ingerested in her, attracted to her and loves her.
Author youcanever Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 Sounds like you did the right thing here. Wouldn't of been right. She would of been hurt a lot more if you hadn't of ended it. What do you mean by conversations were dull with her? Just you didn't have the same interests etc? We did have only one interest and it was travelling. All we talk were how was your day style and she wasnt having much to talk, and i got bored a lil bit. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago. I still want to live my single life and flirt with girls as much as i can even though i know i am losing a supe nice girl. It feel really weird.
Author youcanever Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 You did the right thing! She might hurt now but she deserves someone who is ingerested in her, attracted to her and loves her. Thats what i told to her. I like her and i dont love her. I told her maybe for couple of weeks she will feel bad but then she will understand it was the right decision. She told she wants to lose her virginit with me again and said how would she know next guy will be a good one. I feel like calling her and apologise and take her back but i wont do it, because i know one day we will break up again. I dont want to mess with her head. My ex messed with my head, but i wont do the same to this one.
Stryker101 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 You did the right thing. Come back to her when she's more experienced and into casual sex. jk
Mariposa10 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 This is a weird thread (I'm sorry)... She wanted to have sex!!!! You should've had sex with her?? It's sooo creepy to still hold virginity so high!!! Was it a big deal for her? Maybe she just wanted to do it?? It's not like she was 15 years old, she's 24!! Oh ok, I just re-read your post, so she wanted to do it and NOT breakup... Ok so whatever she wanted needs to be respected. I guess you did the right thing.
aybc123 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Had a similar situation, dating a girl for a month, like her but not really feeling it, we end up in bed and she tells me she's a virgin (she was 21 i think) and wants to wait a couple more weeks but does want to have sex. I decided after thinking about it for a few weeks that it wasnt really right when i knew that it probably wasnt going to work out especially with her really liking me so i had to break up with her. She ended up meeting someone else about a year later and they're engaged now (4 years after) so i think i did the right thing and assume she's happy that we didn't sleep together. So yeah i think you did the right thing OP.
Mariposa10 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Had a similar situation, dating a girl for a month, like her but not really feeling it, we end up in bed and she tells me she's a virgin (she was 21 i think) and wants to wait a couple more weeks but does want to have sex. I decided after thinking about it for a few weeks that it wasnt really right when i knew that it probably wasnt going to work out especially with her really liking me so i had to break up with her. She ended up meeting someone else about a year later and they're engaged now (4 years after) so i think i did the right thing and assume she's happy that we didn't sleep together. So yeah i think you did the right thing OP. Or she might regret it, thinking she'll never know what is like to do it with someone else. Sleeping with you could've prevented her from getting GIGS or whatever that thing is called! Ok, I might've gone a little bit overboard,
aybc123 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Or she might regret it, thinking she'll never know what is like to do it with someone else. Sleeping with you could've prevented her from getting GIGS or whatever that thing is called! Ok, I might've gone a little bit overboard, LOL, i actually did consider that when i was typing this out, but i hadn't heard of GIGs at the time.
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