youaremysunshine Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 The guy I'm seeing is very generous and sweet. He is always trying to pay for things, even though I won't let him. He always cooks me a nice breakfast when I stay over. Just generally dotes on me in a way I have never experienced before... I want to return the favour but I don't know how! I am living at home till the end of the month but I will have my own place soon. My folks are really strict about me having guest and I just generally rude to outsiders so I can't cook him a nice meal which would be my normal go-to. I feel all sorts of pressure too because when he initially confessed his feelings to me he was going on a about my generous and giving nature.
Treasa Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 This has always worked for me - baking. Bake him some yummy treats, box/wrap them up, and give them to him. Find out if he had a favorite sweet (mine is mad for caramel slice), and make that. :-) This, and/or give him a massage when you are next over at his place.
jphcbpa Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 keep it simple. men in general have 3 buttons: food, sex and sleep (not in any particular order). I love it when my lady is sweet with love notes, simple texts letting me know she is thinking of me, misses me ect. come from the heart and you cannot go wrong.
Author youaremysunshine Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 I do try to text him when something reminds me of him or to show I remember things he told me like "how was your lab meeting?" Or "good luck with your presentation!". He seems to like texting and will text me throughout the day most days. I definitely should do some baking for him, I made him a birthday cake a few years ago when we were just friends and he says he loved it.
Arabella Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Baking is always a great idea, particularly things that aren't too messy and he can take with him to work (brownies, muffins, cornbread, etc). Even if you use box mixes, it's cheap and it will take you less than an hour to make something simple. Surprise him with sex things that you haven't done with him before. A cute little costume, a sex toy, etc. Don't overdo it... maybe once a month, to keep it special! If you happen to notice that he's running low on something at his place (ie milk, dishwasher soap...), go to the store and buy it for him. Now that the weather is getting colder in many places across the US... get him a nice scarf and hat, or a sweater. None of these things would break the bank, and they show you care about his happiness and well-being. -A
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