laura1011 Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Hey! I want to know if this guy just wants to hook up or is actually interested in me!! So basically we started working together and he soon started complimenting me by noticing my makeup was different and he liked my hair or stuff like that.. he also does a lot for me when i need help with something while others don't bother.. he also kept something that i drew and said he kept by his bed cos thought it was cute? lol So couple of nights ago i was hanging out with a mate who knew my workmate and asked me what i thought of him which i thought was random haha. Then the next night i got a call from him (not sure how he even got my number) and he asked me to have drinks with him and another guy. When I got there both of them were acting strange like the other guy kept leaving us two alone to set us up maybe? then they both went into the other room and i heard him yell "I know shes F*** hot" They came back and things were going good and he said my hair smelt nice and asked if it was strange that he thinks i'm attractive.. and then went on to say that he was angry cause he was worried i liked the other guy. he was really drunk by this point. Next he invited me back to his?? i declined and we hugged and said goodbye then he said he nearly kissed me. next day he texts me to apologies for stuff he said. Few days later he texts me again and asks about my weekend then goes on to ask for money!! WTF? It confuses me because firstly he was drunk.. he wanted me to go back to his and he asked for money... but then on other hand he is extra sweet only to me at work. HELP! I just don't want to be used.. so need to know if he is just tryna sleep with me. Guys are confusing.
Shashasha Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Steer clear from this guy!!! He comes off to me as using you for money. Do you want that?
Assasda Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 How much money did he ask you for. Very strange. Trust your gut
Zahara Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Red flag. Clown is drunk the first time he meets you outside of work? And buddy tagging along? Yes, that is a sure way of showing someone you are interested in getting to know them. Red flag. Clown invites you to his place and you obviously know what for, yes? Big Huge Red I Want To Use You Flag. Clown asks to borrow money? And you're confused? Why are you paying attention to the "sweet" things he says to you ONLY at work instead of the red flags? Big huge signs and you can't see.
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