brokenheart1992 Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 So I've done the acts of a psycho ex. I've begged, pleaded, acted desperate, constantly texted him and I've asked him a few times to give me another chance. We've been together for a little over 2 years. I know this has pushed him away more because it seems like he's acting colder and colder towards me. But I just can't help it. The 2 years we've been together, I see him almost everyday and we lived together. Now that he's gone, it feels like a part of me is gone and I miss him so much. I just can't believe that someone who once loved me this much could do this to me. My grades are suffering and I'm a total mess. I can't even get out of bed sometimes. I still have hopes to get him back, although I know this the chances are probably 0.001%. I still always have the urge and temptation to text/call him because I'm still in denial. I don't believe that he would do this to me. I don't want him to think that I'm crazy despite all the things I've done to push him away even more. What should I do now?? Do you think there will ever be a chance for us?
flight E Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Just try leaving him alone even though it's hard you might be surprised what this can achieve
Kizmet Fisher Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 So I've done the acts of a psycho ex. I've begged, pleaded, acted desperate, constantly texted him and I've asked him a few times to give me another chance. We've been together for a little over 2 years. I know this has pushed him away more because it seems like he's acting colder and colder towards me. But I just can't help it. The 2 years we've been together, I see him almost everyday and we lived together. Now that he's gone, it feels like a part of me is gone and I miss him so much. I just can't believe that someone who once loved me this much could do this to me. My grades are suffering and I'm a total mess. I can't even get out of bed sometimes. I still have hopes to get him back, although I know this the chances are probably 0.001%. I still always have the urge and temptation to text/call him because I'm still in denial. I don't believe that he would do this to me. I don't want him to think that I'm crazy despite all the things I've done to push him away even more. What should I do now?? Do you think there will ever be a chance for us? I know it doesn't make it easier OP, but everyone feels this way about someone who dumps them at least once in their life. The bad news is that things really are over and you're going to hurt like hell for a few months. But the good news is that it will eventually get better and you'll fall in love with someone you probably haven't even met yet. Stay strong. Just because this relationship is dead in the water, doesn't mean you'll be a wreck forever. 2
Author brokenheart1992 Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 I know it doesn't make it easier OP, but everyone feels this way about someone who dumps them at least once in their life. The bad news is that things really are over and you're going to hurt like hell for a few months. But the good news is that it will eventually get better and you'll fall in love with someone you probably haven't even met yet. Stay strong. Just because this relationship is dead in the water, doesn't mean you'll be a wreck forever. But I have all these feelings of guilt and regret about what I've done to him in the past and they're killing me. I want to make it up to him, but I can't now. And the fact that he broke up with me makes me feel even worse about myself.
Kizmet Fisher Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 But I have all these feelings of guilt and regret about what I've done to him in the past and they're killing me. I want to make it up to him, but I can't now. And the fact that he broke up with me makes me feel even worse about myself. Those feelings are hard to deal with, and you need to talk about them with close friends, or hopefully a psychologist. Do not talk about them with your ex though, it'll push him further away. All that his breaking up with you proves is that he probably wasn't the right guy for you to begin with. I know that's hard to deal with now, but in your darkest moments of missing him please cling onto the fact that he isn't the one for you. 1
Shashasha Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 There is no chance that this is going to work out. Stop contacting him, he clearly wanted to end things - and you pushed him further away by all the trxting and calling. Go NC and start your road to recovery.
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