Amaury Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 (edited) Ok so I can honestly say I haven called or txted my ex in a month, but that doesn't mean we haven't talked for a few reasons. We still work together(yes we work together), she has called or txted me. Now I have a few questions since we work together we have a few similar friends (coworkers) on our social networks and her name always pops up every now and again and Ill be lieing if I said I wouldn't click on her name when it does. Is it worth it or smart to delete my whole profile just to avoid someone? Doesn't that let her know that she is still such a big part of my life that I need to completely erase myself to avoid her? Another question I have is that I NEVER reach out to her but every now and again she will txt me about something and she seems interested but a few minutes later she stops txting or keeps or responses to one word, part of me doesnt even want to reply to her first attempts but I dont want to come off as bitter or mad or resentful or like if im still holding a grudge because i dont want her having the satisfaction of knowing she got to me but then what can I do when i bump into her at work and she is all like what are you so mad that your ignoring me now. I know she is sleeping with other guys and I want to forget about all the meaningful experiences we shared and I want to go full NC but all these little things get in the way. *Sigh Edited October 29, 2013 by Amaury
I-Love-Liberty Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Deleting your Facebook or whatever isn't really going to do much to forget her if you see her all the time because she is your co-worker. Amirite? That's a tough situation, one I've never been in, but if it's really bothering you and you're having trouble getting over her, I would look for a new job if you can, block her on FB and do NC. Who cares what kind of message it sends to her, it's for you not her. I wouldn't be ashamed of whatever message it sends anyways, you gotta do what you gotta do man. 1
AnnaAnna Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 I would block her on fb that way her name won't pop on on your wall and you won't be able to see what she's doing. Also, do not reply to her texts!She already knows she's in control because whenever she texts you reply. Since you can't avoid her at work you can be casual and try not to talk to her unless you have to. If she asks why you're avoiding her just say you're not and you're busy. You don't need to explain yourself to her. You're not together anymore and she's sleeping with other people. Best of luck to you!
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