Drewx2 Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 We've been on 2 casual dates. I invited her to go dancing this weekend. She responded and told me that she wanted to go but that she might be car-less. I offered to drive and she responded with.. "The only upside I see to making you do that is that I get to heavily pregame haha" Me: "haha that's a big upside." Her: "pregaming alone is the best...said no one ever" Me: "I said that a minute ago. But I really didn't think it through haha"...and she hasn't responded. Was she trying to set me up to say something dumb or what? Was my response dumb?...for a second it almost sounded like she wanted to drink at her place.
Lansing Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 You are overthinking it! Her first comment was a bit weird.. why she said "making you" do that.. Sure she has another way to get there (public transit/etc). You can't exactly pre-drink at her place if you are driving... Anyway, leave it, and then follow up in a day or two about the weekend if you really want.. She probably doesn't know her situation yet so no need to rush it. It is only Monday. Give it till at least Wednesday.
Author Drewx2 Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 (edited) You are overthinking it! Her first comment was a bit weird.. why she said "making you" do that.. Sure she has another way to get there (public transit/etc). You can't exactly pre-drink at her place if you are driving... Anyway, leave it, and then follow up in a day or two about the weekend if you really want.. She probably doesn't know her situation yet so no need to rush it. It is only Monday. Give it till at least Wednesday. sounds good... she's said a few really questionable things while texting haha..which is good for me because I'm really awkward myself and i don't mind. Edited October 29, 2013 by Drewx2
Assasda Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Dude. You sound awkward. The girl was asking to drink with you at her house before going out. thats what "pregaming alone is the best...said no one ever" Its just a shame that you didnt pick up on that. If I were you, I'd just ask "What type of booze, should I bring over?" and that would be the end of it. Dude... Since youre pretty awkward, try to let her do most of the talking. This girl sounds ready to have fun, and you dont want to talk your way out of it 1
Author Drewx2 Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 (edited) Dude. You sound awkward. The girl was asking to drink with you at her house before going out. thats what "pregaming alone is the best...said no one ever" Its just a shame that you didnt pick up on that. If I were you, I'd just ask "What type of booze, should I bring over?" and that would be the end of it. Dude... Since youre pretty awkward, try to let her do most of the talking. This girl sounds ready to have fun, and you dont want to talk your way out of it I didn't already talk my way out of it did I? Should I just ask her what kind of wine she likes before I come over and then bring a bottle? I picked up on it...but pregaming & driving don't mix. Wouldn't mind if we never left her apartment though. Edited October 29, 2013 by Drewx2
Assasda Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 If you already have a date set to vist her. Just visit. Just pick up any ole wine that you think she might like and surprise her. Don't ask her anything else. You could always drink with her before you go out, just don't drink as much... OR Don't drink any alcoholic beverages, and let her do all the hardcore drinking, and you basically just listen and drink a soft drink 1
Author Drewx2 Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 (edited) If you already have a date set to vist her. Just visit. Just pick up any ole wine that you think she might like and surprise her. Don't ask her anything else. You could always drink with her before you go out, just don't drink as much... OR Don't drink any alcoholic beverages, and let her do all the hardcore drinking, and you basically just listen and drink a soft drink We haven't set a date yet, But I'm pretty sure It's going to happen. BTW she's really awkward too...She told me she found my facebook (through a text) and then never even sent a friend request. Which is a little creepy & dumb, but she's pretty so i'll let it slide haha Edited October 29, 2013 by Drewx2
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