linym Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Hi all, so last week I was out with my friends at a party, and I met this really cute, funny, nice guy. The whole night he kept looking at me, and had talked to me before, making it clear he was interested. And so later I went up to talk to him, and he made it obvious he was interested, flirting and what not, bought me a a drink. His friends said "My friend is really into you." I gave him my number, which I don't normally do, but I did enjoy talking to him. The next morning he textd me, and continued to for the rest week. It was all flirty, funny texts, and he made it very obvious he was interested. He also wanted to know if I was going out again this weekend. On friday I went out, and he knew I was going to be there. When I saw him, he didn't really talk to me much or give me the time of day. When I first saw him, he stopped for a few seconds to say hi, but then said I'll talk to you later, I have to say hi to some friends. I kept on seeing him during the night, and he was looking at me, and he did talk to me a few other times during the night, but very briefly. He texted me while we were out too, saying "hi." I didn't really care too much, because it's not like I was really into him, just sort of a small crush, enjoyed talking to him and he is cute. So when I was leaving I saw him and he wanted to walk me home, so I let him, because it isn't safe to walk home alone where I live. I go to school in another country, btw. So he walked me home and when I opened my gate he came in. I was like "oh ok .. you're coming in then?" I was just planning to make some food and go to sleep, so I invited him for the food. He did end up kissing me, and we just made out a few times. He actually ended up having to throw up in my bathroom twice, and he was really embarrassed about that. I let him sleep it off on my couch and he left a few hours later, since it was too dark to walk home. The next day he texted me, still being flirty and funny. We made plans to hang later that night ,but I cancelled because I was way too tired and wanted to go to sleep. So last night I texted him saying he could come over if he wanted to, when I was done studying. He texted later saying hey what's up, and I invited him over. But he never responded... Sooo I am confused! I know he normally takes a long time to respond, but it's been like almost a whole day now, and he still hasn't responded. Maybe he ran out of minutes, or didn't see the text. I guess he isn't that interested anymore then...? I guess I am confused becuase I thought he was clearly interested, and then all of a sudden, nothing. And he acted weird on Friday night, by purposely not talking to me, when he had spent the whole week texting me. I'm wondering if he just wanted to have s** and that's it... but I am not sure.
stillafool Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 It sounds like this guy is quite busy and probably has more than one girl on hold if you know what I mean. The fact that he saw you out but really didn't spend any time with you is odd if he really wants to get to know you. Maybe you shouldn't have invited him in and made out with him since he didn't spend any time with you in public. You say he walked you home because it isn't safe to be out alone in your hood but I have to ask, who walked you to the club in the first place?
Author linym Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 Thanks for the reply! That's what I was thinking too. Becuase if you like a girl, you'll make the effort. And he spent all the night last week when he met me talking to me, but didn't really give me the time of day this past Fri. I went out with my friend, but she lives in the opposite direction of me, on campus. I live off campus, and we were going in opposite directions. So there was no way for us to walk together home.
Author linym Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 I guess I should add that I am upset and confused because I got out of a nasty relationship a few months ago, and this is the first person that I have expressed any interest in. I'm not really looking for a relationship, I was drunk and h**** that night. I'm not one to have a one night stand, I just wanted to make out really. I guess I did have a small crush though, and I've never had to put myself out there before, guys usually come after me.
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