Lost_Dragon Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 She messaged me again about the jeep. Says she talked to a cop and since I didn't return her last message, she is just gonna come get it. I tried to give it to her when she left me before but she said, NO. That's your jeep You payed for it. Now she wants it. I was just about to go to sleep when I saw the message. My adrenaline was off the charts. I cleaned out my belongings. Got a jump and moved it away from my house. I sent her a message back. Title, Registration and key is in glove box. Its parked behind the diner. It needs a jump. Get it before it gets towed. That was it. Hopefully its gone when I wake up. There shouldn't be any reason for her to bother me ever again. No more shady lady. It needs alot of work to pass inspection. Glad I never fixed it up with MY money. The hurt I feel, the betrayal, The most ignorant and petty person I've ever met. 2
TylerDurdenn Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 You handled that very well. Well done. 3
Zahara Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Don't even know why you mentioned it needs a jump and she needs to be quick before it gets towed. Let her figure it out the hard way. 3
Author Lost_Dragon Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 Don't even know why you mentioned it needs a jump and she needs to be quick before it gets towed. Let her figure it out the hard way. I told her because I'm not a bitter person and I just want it over with. I might be mad but there's no point in feeding the drama. The jeep is still there. Its on her to take it before it gets towed. Either way, I want it out of my life along with her and the drama. 1
Author Lost_Dragon Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 The love is gone and so is the fight. She can fall on her own sword. 1
mea_M Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 I agree you handled it well too. Good for you. Keep moving forward. :-) Mea :-) 1
Author Lost_Dragon Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 Thanks everyone. I handled it my way. I was close to breaking down but it passed. I'm not giving more emotions to her. She already took more than she had the right to. 1
Author Lost_Dragon Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 Now she sent a message that said.. "Do you want it or no? Why is she asking me now? After she talked to cops and said she wanted it? I told her, No. I don't want it. Left it at that. No reply since.
Zahara Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Ignore anymore messages from her. Ignore. Her behavior is manipulative and controlling. She was either trying to antagonize you and provoke a response or she now has a jeep that she needs to invest money and time in and is realizing that it's too much of a hassle. That's what she gets for being vindictive. 1
Author Lost_Dragon Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 So she replied.. Her: Why? Me: You threatened me with court. Its in your name so take it. The keys and papers are in the glove box. It will be towed. Her: What will you do about car? Me: No response Her: Hows Ur life? U dating? RU happy? Me: My life is mine. Worry about yours. Take the jeep or don't. Her: I just asked if you were dating.. Who cares! Her: I saw the bad things you said to (friend) and (My other Ex) about me and my new boyfriend. Not very nice but whatever. I know the only way she could have seen those things was if my friend or my ex showed her, which I doubt highly, Or she had my FB password and got on my account. I had a feeling she did because one day I came home from work and my ex who I'm still friends with was deleted from my friends list. I thought she deleted me but I looked at my activity log and it said I deleted her. I re-added her and changed my password. Shortly after I started getting mean messages on my ps3 from my current ex. She ended it with me, got new BF next day. Why is she going on my FB? I deactivated it and since then she started on the jeep thing. My Last message to her with no response was.. Me: Its over now. You made that clear. I've not bothered you at all. If I hurt you, I'm sorry. I let go, please do the same for me. i need NO CONTACT from you. All the best. 1
Zahara Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Please stop responding to her. You gave her exactly what she wanted. Control. And she knows she has it. The only way to twist a knife in these types is to go silent. Responding only fuels their need for control. She now knows you are still affected. She wants to know how you are doing/dating/etc. then she jabs you about the bad things you have been saying. She threathens to call cops about the jeep then asks you if you want it and then is concerned if you have a car. Just manipulative. Nothing about her words are genuine. Don't feed the beast. Block her number. No more engaging with her. 2
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