antieverything Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Hi there So, I've been in contact with this nice guy the past few months. We met on a dating site. In this time I met him once, but will be meeting up again next week. He said he wants to take things slow. There is no mention of sex, so I'm hoping he sees me as more than that. We got on really well in person, we chat every day via texting. He says things like, we are friends for now I'm not sure though, I thought if you were really into someone you would see them maybe a couple times a week? I don't drive but he will be down to see me again. I'm not sure what to think!? Maybe he isn't ready for some serious dating or not very confident :/ any ideas? Thankyou
deathandtaxes Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 A few months and you've only met once? Ouch. On OLD, I try to meet with a lady as soon as is possible. I mean, I will email a few times to make sure the interest is there, then get a cell to text, and that's just basically to set up a first date. Why have you met only once in such a long time? This isn't taking it slow. This is just a pen pal relationship at best. If you are into somebody, you will make time to see them. A couple of times a week might be too much for some people, or just perfect for others.
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