Jakethesnake Posted December 13, 2004 Posted December 13, 2004 I have this friend that i have been spending a lot of time with lately and we are both rebuilding our lives after devoices. Her was a real mess she lost her job, house, savings and fight for custody of her child. Mine was not as bad but lost my house, kids see them only once a week. Etc. I have known her 10 years and we both liked each-other then but didn't let each other know. We found out later that yes it was love there. But yet to be physical. after 2 years of getting to know each other the last few months things have been going well. We re builded our friendship. She always said she just wants it to be natural when it happened. But we both been though so much. She was also abused. Now the head games are starting and this Saturday she told me she was busy. After we fought as well over her always shifting the blame on me. As all i was doing was helping out. She called back and said she was still tied up Saturday night. Strange as she got her hair done this week and was so proud about it. I didn't care who or where she was going. Just said have fun. I am not jealous over her because i now know that she not the type to sleep around. After everything she been though. Around 930PM Saturday night i get a phone call from her. Asking what i am doing because she confessed that she was meeting an old girlfriend and maybe if your going out with friends we can all hook up. Cool!!! She then called to confirm that she may show up at the bar i was at. but she didn't thats ok i didn't care knowing that she out with her friend it she needs to get out too. Why do you think she called?? Was she curious that i might be on a date??? As I was curious. Do i continue perusing her as i do lover so much??? I know we both have a lot on her plate but she needs to be good friends before she hits the next level. How long do you hang in for?? The strange thing is i am turning faithful to her and being more honest and she learning little things everyday about me that she thought were not true. It makes her head spin. WHy??? Is it Love or what?
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