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I would like to postpone a date


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I've dated this guy 3 times, each times going out for dinner/drinks/board games, we've kissed, nothing more. He's a great conversationalist but I'm not sure what to make of him. Very charming but not a flatterer. Next to no flirting in person but a fair bit by text and Facebook.

 

So, last time we saw each other he just said 'text me sometime..'

 

We then bumped into each other a few days later and he made a date for tomorrow.

 

Today, I've just come back from a long weeken away, I'm feeling exhausted, a little bloated and have a breakout, just..not sexy! And I'm feeling the urge to postpone tomorrow.

 

These are real girly reasons to cancel, should I just go? Or are there polite ways to say if like to postpone?

 

I'm also not 100% about him but I enjoy his company and want to get to know him better. I am fragile after being dumped recently, and I may just want a casual relationship with this guy tbh.

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Just let him know you are exhausted and offer up another date. Give him a clear date and time you are free so that the postponement doesn't look like a blowoff.

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