jdc695 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I went on a date with a girl from college recently...we have always kind if been interested in each other, it just never happened. We went out and everything seemed to be going really well. When I dropped her off I parked the car and said I had a good time. She then grabbed her purse and got out of the car and said she did too. As she was standing outside the car I said we should do this again soon and she said "ya, I have a lot of free time". It was weird bc it seemed like she didn't want me to kiss her...does this seem like a bad sign? I kinda felt like I was getting mixed signals
Shashasha Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 What is weird about this? She already said she had free time and you might be overthinking the not wanting to kiss you part. If she really disnt want to kiss, respect that and take it slow.
TylerDurdenn Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Strange because she didn't kiss you? You're the strange one. 1
Author jdc695 Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 Lol let me rephrase it; I was wondering if it was a sign it ended badly. I didn't try and make anything happen, I was just wondering if her bolting was a sign to leave her be. Thanks for the responses
Kate9292 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I don't see what's wrong with it. Yeah, looks like she didn't want to kiss you, but just because a date went wel, doesn't mean your entitled to a kiss. You don't have to be kissing her to enjoy her company, right?
KatZee Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Was this a first date? She was clearly uncomfortable in the car and probably uncomfortable with the thought of being in a silent, parked car and thought you may have expected making out or something like that, so instead she got out and made it very clear she wasn't going to kiss you or be physical in any way. This doesn't make her a "freak" and this is not "freakish behavior." It's a girl who clearly knows what she wants, and what she won't allow to happen. She already agreed to see you again, so ask her out again and take it slow. 1
Author jdc695 Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 This was a second date, we went out a while ago, like 2 years ago. And to be clear, I didn't make a physical advance at all in the car. She seemed fine, she just jumped out when I parked. Just didn't know if that was a sign to leave her be ya know
mortensorchid Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I don't like to say this, but I think she just blew you off. I was out on an Internet date recently, about halfway through the meal I could tell he was getting impatient and I found him to be arrogant and rude. When we left the restaurant, he asked where I was parked and I pointed to a parking garage nearby. He literally walked away and said "Thanks for the stories". No handshake, nothing. What an a******. Needless to say I doubt this gal is going to take you up on an offer if you ask her to do something again. Plus with that info about you had another date two years before, it's kind of odd. I'd just move on.
Lovelorn00 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I've done this before. Not because the date was horrible, but because I can get really nervous about the first kiss. I usually don't kiss on the first date, but I'm kind of awkward, so I could see myself hopping out of the car really quickly like that, too. Maybe she was just nervous. If the date went badly, she wouldn't have mentioned all of her "free time" to you. Keep a positive attitude and look forward to date 2!
Phantom888 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 wait the 1st date was years ago? Then this is the 1st date again. See if you can get a 2nd date. If she is enthusiastic, then she is interested. 1
Author jdc695 Posted October 30, 2013 Author Posted October 30, 2013 Well I asked her if she wanted to go out again this weekend. She said yes and mentioned she was about to ask me the same thing, so that's a good thing lol thanks for all the replies
forgetmenot75 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 you scared her/annoyed her. try to think what did you do wrong.
Author jdc695 Posted November 18, 2013 Author Posted November 18, 2013 So just figured I'd give an update..we have been hanging out a lot lately and we went out again this Friday. Everything has been going really well and we both like each other/are on the same page. I'm pretty sure she was just feeling everything out at first. Thanks to everyone who replied 1
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