Bootsky Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Ok, I turn yet again to you all. I have been talking to this girl for just over a year, and more seriously for the passed month. We live one hour apart, so we try to see each other on the weekends. The passed couple weekends however she has been busy with work (8am-5pm Saturdays) (4pm-10pm Sundays), and on top of that she has had a couple weddings to go to with her family...(these were not used as excuses to flake). Anyways, the deal is that I am starting to miss this girl and I am finding myself thinking however that things just aren't going to workout because of this distance and the busy schedule... The last time we spent time together was two weeks ago, which was also the first time that we had sex. After that night she said she is falling for me, I said that I want to be with her however she said she did too but she is just afraid of commitment.... so we were supposed to hang out lastnight after she was done with a wedding, however she ended up staying at the wedding (rode with her friend) until midnight, and we couldn't hang out.she was upset that her friend decided to stay so long, I said don't worry about it it's just one night. After that she tweeted "it's been two weeks, so glad it means absolutely nothing to you"..... I'm not sure how I feel about social media, however I know that was directed toward our situation....since then I asked her to hang tonight after work but she said I'm sorry we have a huge party for work tonight and I'm just going to be super busy..... How long do I put up with the hot and cold with her? Should I end it? Or just stay patient.....
Queen_Sophie_Anne Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 hoooooly **** so much of what you wrote is eerily similar to the situation I'm in. I don't really have any advice to give, except to maybe take it slowly with her even though you've already had sex. She may very well be into you - she said as much, right, - but could be dealing with past breakups where she jumped into a committed relationship too quickly.
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