Stealth3 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I moved in a new place out of state and ive been feeling a little down lately, missing my ex a lot and I sent her an email a few days ago saying Im sorry for everything and i really need to talk to her. She replied asking what i want to talk about then saying she doesnt want to talk to me anymore. I was a little shocked because usually she doesnt reply at all and i thought my email was long blocked by now. So i replied but received no call. I then sent her a long email saying I want to get back together and if not I want to at least say goodbye. I guess she felt sorry and called me shortly after. I finally had a conversation with her where she didnt hang up at me or lashed out at me and it was very short. She made it clear she doesnt want to start fresh since she doesnt like me and apparantly didnt like me for a long time. She managed to convince herself she didnt like me a long long time ago. I just said goodbye, told her she deserves to know how i felt and just wanted to say goodbye. I didnt expect her to still have my number but for some reason she kept it. I did feel bad initially but i felt good that i got a lot out of my chest and i got the chance to say goodbye. I will have to stick to NC and just move on, find another girl. Its so hard...
loveofhorses1970 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Hopefully, this is closure for you. Begin NC again..and stick with it. <3 blessings <3
FearingTEN Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 You can get through this . I know how hard it is . God bless
Simon Phoenix Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Probably not the best thing to do, but if you stop contacting her, then it's not a big deal. Unfortunately, a lot of people who take the actions you took decide that there's one more "last thing" they have to say, then keep repeating that pattern. Don't be that guy.
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