Drewx2 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 (edited) I want to ask this girl to come over to my parents house on halloween to sit outside & hand out candy with me. The only problem I have is that I live with my parents and this would only be our 3rd date. I feel like it could be a turn-off if my parents were to get intrusive...or if she even saw my parents for that matter haha. Worth the risk? I haven't kissed her yet, so if the 'date' were to go well I'd try to get her into my room for some wine and a movie. What do you guys think? I think it sounds like an awesome idea...but then again I tend to have a lot of bad ideas Edited October 27, 2013 by Drewx2 1
todreaminblue Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 I want to ask this girl to come over to my parents house on halloween & sit outside & hand out candy. The only problem I have is that I live with my parents and this would only be our 3rd date. I feel like it could be a turn-off if my parents were to get intrusive...or if she even saw my parents for that matter haha. Worth the risk? I haven't kissed her yet, so if the 'date' were to go well I'd try to get her into my room for some wine and a movie. What do you guys think? I think it sounds like an awesome idea...but then again I tend to have a lot of bad ideas the candy thing sounds cool....just tell your parents go easy on her teh wine in the bedroom on a third date.....hmmmm.....too early i feel...movie yeah...forgo the wine...alcohol bed.....nakedness...imminent....regret in the morning.....good luck ...deb
bentleychic Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 I say haunted house and/or scary movie instead. More opportunities to cuddle/comfort her. IF she's in to scary stuff, anyway.
Author Drewx2 Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 I say haunted house and/or scary movie instead. More opportunities to cuddle/comfort her. IF she's in to scary stuff, anyway. she's not into it, I've tried
Art_Critic Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 only if you dress up too....then it would be cool..IMO
bentleychic Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Have you asked her what she might like to do? Any parties or events nearby? We did a haunted concert last night that was pretty fun, but not too scary other than the initial entrance. Just lots of people dressing up, etc.
Art_Critic Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 I have had dates where I did it and was in my 20's-30's, although I also had a house that I was handing out candy regardless and had the date with me. I have also had a GF over at Halloween before, not just dates... it is a holiday we can't ignore and is fun to dress up and hand out candy.
husker1989 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Depends on your age OP and what you are looking for (long term, short term etc). I'd do the movie and cuddling in your room, if you include wine then sex could happen. Are you able to read her well enough to know if that would bother her, if she seems like the slower type then pump the brakes on even taking her into your room let alone wine. Maybe you could cook her a home made candle light dinner and finish that up before the kids come by. That way you actually have a "date" and it would probably mean more to her. Then let it transition into watching and movie and answering the door. That would be my suggestion.
Author Drewx2 Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 Depends on your age OP and what you are looking for (long term, short term etc). I'd do the movie and cuddling in your room, if you include wine then sex could happen. Are you able to read her well enough to know if that would bother her, if she seems like the slower type then pump the brakes on even taking her into your room let alone wine. Maybe you could cook her a home made candle light dinner and finish that up before the kids come by. That way you actually have a "date" and it would probably mean more to her. Then let it transition into watching and movie and answering the door. That would be my suggestion. I really can't read her too well, sexually at least...all I know is that she's interested. She initiates most of the texting and today she went out of her way to see me. Last week I asked if she wanted to go dancing. she backed out...I had already made plans and she texted me to tell me that she wished she would of took me up on my offer. Next week I'm going to try again. She has her own place, hopefully I'll get invited back. I'm ditching the trick-or-treat idea.
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