confusedlover12345 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Hey there guyz n gals... Am in quite a soup here... Would be great to get advice from you ppl here... Here's my story... I have been in love with a girl for 3 years. Both our families know about the relationship and are ok with it ending in marriage. Much of the 3 years relationship has been a long distance one, since we are both currently stationed in different parts of the country. Everyday I keep contact with her over Skype. About a month ago, a new girl came into my life. I met her very randomly, we became friends very fast and we fell in love faster than that. She knows about the other girl in my life, yet I know that she is madly in love with me. I too love her a lot. This new relationship is not known to anyone but us both. I don't know what to do now. I really wish to tell the other girl about the new relationship, but I am unable to do so as I fear she might do something stupid to herself. Also, I think I am nearing that phase of life where marriage beckons me. The new girl told me that she can never marry any person other than me. Am sure the first girl also would tell me the same. Donno what to do guyz..... Confused... Worried... Tensed... Plzzzz Advice....
ConstantVoyager Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 I'm of the opinion that you cannot know or value a person enough after only one month to truly love them. Because you're letting the new girl interfere with your longer-term relationship, I think you're probably not in love with either of them. I'd take some time and try to figure out what you really want.
TylerDurdenn Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 I really hate 'men' like you, you've had a girl stand by you for 3 years and this is how you repay her? Grow a pair, you ain't ready for marriage. 3
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