MrCastle Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 yeh i know how weird it is. maybe im ****ed up in the head. i thought YOLO what have i got to lose. i came from a family that was super protective and have been quite sheltered my whole life. maybe that explains. well he has a whole list of videos saved on his ps3 and he edited them artistically too. one he showed me was just her giving him a BJ for what seems like forever. real dedicated. he uses a condom with me as im not on the pill atm. but the other day i didnt want him to use one and asked him to pull out, he thought about it and said he will TRY. i was like WTF is he willing to risk getting me pregnant? then he is stuck with me 4EVER. so i dont think his is commitment phobic or anything. ..........
MrCastle Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I'm not sure if this thread is even real but if it is, you need professional help. I'm not saying that to be funny, or mean. I'm being honest. Again, that's assuming this thread is real and everything you said is legit. I would educate you on the risks of unprotected sex but honestly that's not even the most important part of this story. You need to open your eyes. 1
Eclypse Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Where so I meet girls like you and your friend?!? What a life!!
ascendotum Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I don't think this is necessarily true. I have a friend that has had multiple threesomes. It's really more about the guy's ability to create one than the girls that are willing to do it. These girls are not in as short supply as some may think. I guess I'm going more by what I've read on the swinger scene. I could be wrong. I've got a couple of friends who have had numerous FFM encounters with gfs and a another girl. The way it seems to have worked for them is...they're good looking to start with and have no shortage of options, and how it seems to play out is that they subtly (or not so subtle) mention to their new gf how raunchy their past gfs were, home vids, hardcore, 3somes, etc. The new gf doesn't want to disappoint, and wants to be his best gf, and so she ups the raunch. Finding a liberated adventurous gf who is gaga over you is the going to be a great start I would have thought. In the swinger scene, single women are known as unicorns. I remember reading an article on poly relationships and how it was a lot easier for a women to find men to be in one then it was for guys to find a single woman to share him. 1
Purepony Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 I stopped reading here. This is just too stupid. Best accurate post of the day!!
Author lil_missy Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 I don't think this is necessarily true. I have a friend that has had multiple threesomes. It's really more about the guy's ability to create one than the girls that are willing to do it. These girls are not in as short supply as some may think. would agree with this one. not sure about supply of girls, but it is def up to the GUY to make it happen. in my case, me and his gf has no idea how to get things started, it is awkward u know. we sat there for 3 hrs watching movies and nothing happened. she ran off with her bf a few times and told him she didnt know what to do. if her bf had not stepped in and made it happen it would not have happened.
Author lil_missy Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 I'm not sure if this thread is even real but if it is, you need professional help. I'm not saying that to be funny, or mean. I'm being honest. Again, that's assuming this thread is real and everything you said is legit. I would educate you on the risks of unprotected sex but honestly that's not even the most important part of this story. You need to open your eyes. what kind of professional help do you suggest? gosh i have always wanted to see a therapist i think it is one of those first world privileges. who doesnt want someone to just talk about YOU for hrs and hrs.
Author lil_missy Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 You not being on the pill and the guy saying he would TRY to pull out does not make him committed. It just means he doesn't give a ****. aww ok. what does he expect to do when i get preggers then? =( well he did put on a condom after that.
OpheliaSong Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 If this is for real and I am thinking it isn't, then you are one messed up little girl. You wanted a threesome even though you are naïve and childlike. Then you wanted a lesbian relationship, but when she pushed you towards her husband, you decided that you would just accept him even though you weren't attracted to him at all...does anyone else not see how disjointed this is. If you are willing to get "preggers" with these people in this situation then you have problems that you need to go see a professional therapist about. What is wrong with you? 1
Author lil_missy Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 If this is for real and I am thinking it isn't, then you are one messed up little girl. You wanted a threesome even though you are naïve and childlike. Then you wanted a lesbian relationship, but when she pushed you towards her husband, you decided that you would just accept him even though you weren't attracted to him at all...does anyone else not see how disjointed this is. If you are willing to get "preggers" with these people in this situation then you have problems that you need to go see a professional therapist about. What is wrong with you? haha sorry this post cracked me up. everything you've stated is pretty much the opposite of what i said. i did NOT want a threesome but fell into it. i did NOT want a lesbian relationship but to explore being with a girl. when she pushed me towards her bf, i initially resisted then grew to like him and accepted. and finally was NOT willing to get preggers hence asking for him to pull out or use a condom. seems like you need to brush up on your reading comprehension, back to school?
Author lil_missy Posted November 1, 2013 Author Posted November 1, 2013 (edited) anymore advice anyone? so what should i do in this situation? so last i heard from him is over a week ago which is the longest i havnt heard from him. his last msg was " hey babe sorry had a few things to get through this week yes we are seeing each other dont stress x been missing you too we will have to organise some time together soon x" i finally see the light, reading through threads on this forum has made it crystal clear to me that im just a booty call to him and i think im leaning towards ending things with him. so whats the best way to end things with him that will leave me with most self-respect? (no mean comments pls, i realise what ive done) i was thinking of options below: 1) msging him now to tell him that its over i dont want to do this anymore. 2) wait til he contacts me again to hook up, then tell him im no longer interested (but i dont know when and if he will contact me again) 3) msging him and telling him my honest feelings that im hurt by the way he treated me, basically have a honest convo with him about where things stand. also, for the guys, if i dont end things with him is there anyway i can turn things around and make him fall for me? if we end up together i will give you his contact and you guys can be BFFs =P =( Edited November 2, 2013 by lil_missy
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