Delilah1623 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 (edited) Authentic does not mean tactless, presumptuous and disrespectful. Edited October 27, 2013 by Delilah1623 Dpelling 1
happydate Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Authentic does not mean tactless, presumptuous and disrespectful. But is he? That's the observation of the OP with her own built-in perceptions of her subconscious. To me, he may not.
KatZee Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Authentic people ARE NOT people pleasers and tend to say things that may shock you or may hurt your feelings. Authentic people are NOT tactless, rude, disrespectful, obvious control freaks who need to display their authority. They don't walk into someone's house on the SECOND time meeting a child, and make such openly critical remarks on a child, and on the parenting skills of another person. They also don't make these remarks while in the SAME ROOM as the child. Guess what, everyone has their own parenting skills, and if OP is a single mother who has raised a child with a medical disorder who is sometimes hard to handle, and this child manages to charm every other person that comes into the house? The issue isn't the OP or the child. It's this idiot of a guy. 1
Delilah1623 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 If she was comfortable with the way it was handled and felt respected she would not be on an internet dating forum asking if he was out of line. If you think he was within acceptable boundaries than you date him. Hopefully he will be single soon.
deathandtaxes Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Total effin d-bag. Immediate commentary? Holy ****! Either dump him or you immediately tell him what you think of his comments. You have to be assertive in this matter. Being passive and holding your tongue will only build up resentment inside you and he will think it ok to continue making such comments in the future. 2
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