ljpaterson Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 FIRST. A little background information. I'm 22 and have had quite a few boyfriends. I'm not a virgin. He's the same age and he's never had a girlfriend and he's a virgin. We have mutual friends and have known each other for 2 years now. I got to know him pretty well before we dated. About two weeks ago, I asked if he wanted to hang out. Since I had never asked him to hang out before when it was just the two of us, he assumed it was a date. He told our mutual friend it was a date and then it just kind of.. turned into one. SO here's how it went. He picked me up.. we went back to his house and watched tv together. We sat close to each other and I tried to get closer to him.. but he would keep pulling away sometimes. Sometimes he would scoot closer. Then.. he sat close to me again and put out his hand and I grabbed it and tried to hold his hand toward the end of the night. He didn't hold my hand back.. he just kind of kept his hand open and he let me hold his hand but didn't wrap his fingers around mine. It was really awkward so I was like "Is this weird?" And he's like "Yeah.. it is. Because it's just making our hands kind of sweaty" So we kept holding hands and then about 10 minutes later he's like "Well, I should take you home now" and then he took me home. No kiss. No hug. No nothing!! I thought for sure he didn't like me but then on the car ride to my house he's like "when should we see each other again?" He's been texting me a little things now every day, but when I try to talk back, he goes silent. Does he like me or what the hell is going on here? I've never been in a situation like this and I cannot read what he's thinking.
Assasda Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Sounds like you like him. He's still feeling you out, and I personally think that he's being cautious. He wants to meet you again, to see how it goes again. So go out with him again 1
theothersully Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 He is super, super nervous! lol This is probably why he hasn't had any action before. Sound scared to death and makes me picture one of those big bang theory guys. He has no idea what to do. This will be all on you to get going. Think back to your first kiss. He seems to be at that level.
newmoon Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 poor guy sounds super nervous. leave him to set the pace and just because you have more experience don't force him to go fast(er) than what he wants. if he was fast he wouldn't still be a virgin now would he. he's obviously a guy that is willing to wait, so get to know and like him more by hanging out and let things develop a little slower. then he'll be more comfy in your company
Author ljpaterson Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 Thanks for the answers! lol. I'm seeing him tomorrow and I will see how he reacts and maybe let him make the first move this time! Yes, I do like him, which is why I tried to hold hands with him.
12123 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Don't put him on the spot. I think he's just really nervous.
farva2 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 Poor chap is shaking in his boots, sounds like he likes you he just needs some time to warm up and get comfortable to you.
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