ellisjp Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Ok so.... Cliffnotes for the past month and a half: -Started talking to this girl in my college class (both 22). She seemed interested, went to lunch on campus, eventually asked her out. -Went downtown to a cool place (on sept 25), had a great time, convo flowed easy, she showed it and said she had a great time, very thankful, I paid for it (no moves just fyi) mentioned I had hockey tickets coming up - she wanted to go really bad -Next few times in class are fine, we continue to talk, I don't text her lame crap just talk in person. - Asked her to the movies (didn't want to jump to the hockey game), one weekend she was legit busy, another time she kinda beated around, but said she wanted to just had a crazy schedule. I took this as disinterest and kept talking, but quit asking. - Eventually she asked me to the same movie. Long story short, we didn't go. (She lost her phone/I had a family issue) Nothing gained/lost -Went to said hockey game last week with one of my bros and told her about it when she asked about my weekend. She had a mix of excitement/little jealousy, so I could tell she remembered I had put it out there we should go. - Still actively talks to me in class and has gone out of her way to talk to me, especially after class. Thursday I asked her to get lunch with me Friday... ended up going to this pizza place, and were generally having a decent time for a Friday morning. We can really talk to each other pretty well, no awkward silences/comments on either end. Well towards the end of the lunch/conversation I asked her directly to a different hockey game that is Nov. 5th. Mentioning that I wanted her to come with me last time, but that she never really got back to me or committed to being available that weekend (she agreed it was her bad). Well she said yes and cleared her schedule basically right then and there. (Just a note I did not buy her lunch today). These seats aren't the best but I got a great deal on them, she has never been and LOVES the Capitals. So as of now, we are going to the Caps game Tuesday the 5th. I'm not sure where this is heading, I've never 'made a move' on her, I flirt a little, I get crappy advice about this all the time. Does she think I'm just taking her as a friend? Is it normal for things like this to go this slow? What should I do or start doing in the meantime? (I see her every Tu/Th in class) You guys' advice is always appreciated. Thanks in advance, sorry if its long, just wanted to tell the story
Assasda Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Sounds like its going pretty good. You did good by going to the game, and not telling her. You told her that you're not needy for her, she responded with clearing her schedule for you. - You showed her that youre a strong available guy, and not some punk. If you want it to move forward in a more "Hotter" nature, you can always flirt with her more, and if she flirts back with you, you can rub her thigh. Thigh rubs drives women wild. I always do a quick, almost friendly one, before I go for the kiss. All signs are Go bro, youre not doing bad
Author ellisjp Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 I'm just getting a little nervous about this. I would feel like a total tool if we went to this and got rejected. I've taken a girl to a pro sports game before, but it was much more 'clear' about what was going on/intentions/etc. So I'm not sure, my friends gave me mixed reviews on this (from dude you blew anything with her awhile ago, to yeah! perfect! I'm sure she likes you and is excited) although sort of funny, it does make me worry a little bit
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